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Thread: Is she giving me the run around?

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    Exclamation Is she giving me the run around?

    >Background
    >Last week this girl that I have been talking to for a few weeks couldn't hang out with me due to work after date #2.

    ****Update*****

    Been texting her today and found out after we had class together that she couldn't do anything this weekend either. Texting went like this:

    Me: Hey what does your weekend look like?

    Her: Working again haha and I'm going to a fair with my grandparents on Sunday, what about you?

    Me: Not much I was hoping you would be off sometime Friday or Saturday so we could hang out.

    Her: Yeaaa :/ I'm almost always working weekends

    Me: Aww. All day Saturday?

    Her: Yea it's an 8 hour shift that is like in the middle of the day :/

    Me: Well would yo like to have dinner with me after you get off of work?

    Her: I'm actually meeting my parents for dinner tonight haha

    Me: Yeah haha I meant tomoro

    Her: Oh gotcha haha well I don't get off till 8 and I have plans with a friend after that.

    Me: Ok thats fine. Maybe some other time!

    to which she followed: Yea haha whatcha up to? (resumed normal texting).

    This gave me concerns with all of the other situations that "just happened" to be on each night. It concerns me because early this week I had a text game i sent to her: //The only reason I would be in a good mood, is getting to see you //

    Advice, Analysis, Help?

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    Default Re: Is she giving me the run around?

    Fark her off, most girls will can plans with a friend for a guy they potentially like. Parents and grandparents fair enough. A friend, no way. Freeze her out. Also give her an offer, dont just say dinner...say what it is so she knows what she's missing out on.

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    Default Re: Is she giving me the run around?

    ok sounds good thanks! I may know the answer to this but she has a twin sister and they are very close. Do I take the risk of asking "said girl's" twin what "said girl" thinks about me?

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    Default Re: Is she giving me the run around?

    Twin sister?! Haha cool. Have no idea unless you know the twin. If you ask your target about her sister I don't fancy your chances but it's possible. Naturally she will be protective or jealous. It lowers your value a bit like asking for 'second best', even though they are twins, or shows you may not be into them beyod looks. Generally I have found girls that are interested will drop plans with friends to be with you or arrange another time. I leave girls with impossible schedules alone. I suppose you could ask for her sisters number but she will know your intentions. That could be good from a jealously angle and might work. I really have no idea but it's worth a shot as you probably don't have much to loose. I might be wrong but if the only way to the twin is via her it probably won't be easy. If you can sneakily add her from FB you might be ok. If you say to the target 'what about your sister is she free?' she could flip out. I guess you could try disqualify yourself 'I'm just interested in friendship - calm down - and why cannot I ask your sister if she is interested? She may not be as busy as you are. You don't seem keen at all so I'm doing nothing wrong by asking'. I have no experience with twins (unfortunately) sorry.

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    Default Re: Is she giving me the run around?

    Im definitely getting The Vibe that she would rather not hang out with you.. I feel your giving her way too much attention with the way your asking twice on the same day after she said no.

    I would text her randomly on a weekend and tell her that your out with some friends doing something fun I.e. at a bar with a mechanical bull and tease her saying that you would invite but you know she's to timid for this kind of thing.

    Not this exactly but you get the picture. Freeze her. neg her. Good luck.

    Oh and don't ask the twin... dlv

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    Default Re: Is she giving me the run around?

    I think jaysonic hit it on the head. Asking twice in the same day is needy. Its like your telling her your basically willing to change your life around to see her. That never looks good.

    I suggest that u neg her for always working or having excuses. Also, if she is TRULY busy, try the famous 'coffee' or 'mall' date. It can be before her saturday shift and its pretty low risk.

    But IMHO I would NOT ask her twin if she likes u. Girl's speak about everything. There's no guarantee she wont say or at least heavily imply thay you like 'said girl.'

    Plus twins have like psychic powers. They can read each other's mind lol!
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