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Thread: How do you respond to, Im busy?

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    Default How do you respond to, Im busy?

    Texting, things are going great, you ask her out the next day, she says she is busy that day and the rest of the week and does not offer another time, I ended up giving her a neg she responded with a lol, then I stopped replying.

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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    You tell her that you understand and will try again another time when she is available.

    No I'm kidding. That's horrible lol.

    What's the history with this girl? Need more details
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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    Eject! Eject! Eject!

    If u never hung out with her and she is already 'busy' could be she's not into u. What kind of a neg did u use btw?
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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    I experimented with this same thing when I was learning...
    At first I was like, "OK, just let me know when you're available, because I can pretty much make my schedule flexible.".
    ***BAD IDEA***

    Then I tried something else the next time it happened:
    Basically along these lines,
    "My schedule is crazy too, so it'll be a while before I can get together again. I just figured I'd give you first dibs... but no biggie. Maybe I'll give you a shout some other time. See ya."

    Somehow, she managed to have time available.

    But, how long have you been texting/chatting with her.
    A big mistake a lot of guys make is going for the "kill shot" (so to speak) of asking a girl out too soon, & not building enough real attraction.


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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    I agree. Also, IMHO the first date request should be by voice or in person. I didn't do this with one girl and i'm having probs with her now. I bet it was the first date request by text that messed me up.
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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    i need help with this too. theres this girl i met who one word texts me, but then if i happen to see her around campus shell be all nice and stuff, if you look at my thread about the HB8 tease then this is her...

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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    The trick when a girl texts one word answers is to stay busy yourself. She could very well be busy. U are allowed to give her the benefit of the doubt.

    Stay busy, touch base with her maybe 1time a week, and please SEE OTHER GIRLS. Invite her on a coffee or study date or whatever u college kids do nowadays lol. If she starts to build a pattern of flaking, then take action.
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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    The trick when a girl texts one word answers is to stay busy yourself. She could very well be busy. U are allowed to give her the benefit of the doubt.

    Stay busy, touch base with her maybe 1time a week, and please SEE OTHER GIRLS. Invite her on a coffee or study date or whatever u college kids do nowadays lol. If she starts to build a pattern of flaking, then take action.
    Ive tried...last week I asked her to eat at the food court she responded with "already did."

    Just like a half an hour ago I asked her if she wanted to come for a ride to get subway and she said "im in class."

    Idk how to break this girl...i want her.

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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    Well start a thread and post the link here. Lets not hijack this one
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    Default Re: How do you respond to, Im busy?

    If a girl says that...I just say "you are more busy than the president, ok...give me a call when you are free....don't make me come down there"


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