To sum it up
Username and Profile Tips include

  • go with a non douchey name, something like intials and zipcode is just fine
  • your profile should leave them with questions about you
  • read a bunch of profiles (males) to see what not to write, like

o "I'm just a laid back guy"
o "I like to hang out with my friends"
o "I like golf" (or fishing/hunting) etc...
o "I'm shy at first but when you get to know me I warm up"
o "Thanks for reading my profile"
o "Message me if you're interested"