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    Default Possible flake........don't know what went wrong.

    Ok so on Friday night i was out clubbing and made out with this girl, added her on fb on my phone whilst we were out.....she added herself on my phone. So on Saturday at about 6 in the evening I fb'd her, wasn't that fussed really and couldn't be bothered with any pussyfooting around so I just straight up asked......
    Me : Heyy, not sure if u even remember me.....only have vague memories myself.....but do u fancy a drink sometime?
    Her: Heyy, yeah I remember, yeah sure, when were u thinking?
    Me: tomoro evening, 7 o clock at tower bar?
    Her: ok sounds good, don't think I'm doing anything.
    Me: cool, gotta go, going gym here's my number 07............., text me yours later bye xx

    Sooo alls going well right? Anyways we had a little bit of flirty texting when she text later then today I didn't text her until about four.......

    Me: Heyy, tower bar at 7.......don't forget xx

    Anyways hour and a half later and no reply, only an hour from when we are supposed to be meeting........this is probably a bit AFC but was bugging me so I text her again like just now with

    Me: we still out tonight or......? Or have u just not checked ur messages? xx

    As of yet no reply.....help please guys, this has happened to me a few times, really can't see what I'm doing wrong :/

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    Default Re: Possible flake........don't know what went wrong.

    There's no way to put this nicely so I'll be blunt - this whole thing reeks of AFC insecurity

    Me : Heyy, not sure if u even remember me.....only have vague memories myself.....but do u fancy a drink sometime?

    Not sure? Do you remember me? Do you fancy a drink? Woa! This is about as insecure a text opener as you could have
    Read this
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...al-bible.html#

    "Me: Heyy, tower bar at 7.......don't forget xx"
    Not great, not horrible. Get rid of "..., and the smiley", a don't forget is ok


    "Me: we still out tonight or......? Or have u just not checked ur messages"

    Seriously if a girl sent ME this, I would probably flake.

    You're showing that she's doing you a favor, you're not giving her anything to look forward to.

    Fact is girls flake, a lot, and the more pressure you put out there, the better chance they'll flake

    After your "don't forget", I'd just leave it there. Don't message again, I'd she didn't respond, don't go. There's not much you can do, except hope she apologizes and tell her to make it up to you next time with a few drinks
    If not, next one!

    Most numbers flake, 60-75%. Get used to it and stop worrying about one girl, one number, one date

    If I was worried about the girls that flaked on me the past 2 weeks alone I'd be insecure as hell

    I'm not, I don't care, because I still have dates with 3 differen girls lined up for t/th/fr.

    If one flakes, who cares

    If you invest too much in one off the bat, you're gonna be let down

    Sorry if this was harsh, I really meant it constructively
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    Default Re: Possible flake........don't know what went wrong.

    It's cool man, my text game is shit and I know it which is the reason I don't use it a lot.....it's normally down to a lack of patience and lack of knowledge on what to actually do so the advice is very welcome :L Iv spent a lot of time on honing in field game and haven't really bothered with texting at all, as I normally go clubbing on student nights I don't normally n close I just go for k and f closes lol. Quite like the idea of dating again though so going to work on my text game a lot. Thanks for the pointers

    Linking x


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