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    Default Fork in the road which path should I choose

    I started to hang out with this girl i know from school HB 7.5 but its not much of a challenge with this one. We were at the fair and I met her friend(who has a boyfriend) HB 8 but this one seems more me. I'm looking for a LTR right now. This HB 8 I can tell is in to me even though she has a boyfriend. The question is go after the HB 7.5(may have lost some points talking to her friend but I could still have her if I choose) or try to win over the HB 8. Heres some pros and cons.

    HB 8
    Cons
    -Has boyfriend, so requires more time.
    -Against me partying(Im a big partier)
    Pros
    -Slightly better looking
    -Seems more me (personality wise)

    HB 7.5
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    -Not as much of a challenge
    -Lives at home with overbearing parents
    Pros
    -Doesn't care if I party
    -Have a mutual friend group

    As you can see Im partial to the HB 8.. but I could use some helps guys
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Fork in the road which path should I choose

    I'll try giving my opinion which is limited on this site ... Although this sounds pretty easy

    Go with the HB8 ... U said it yourself, she's more like your personality, you want a LTR, plus she's better looking ... I'm not even gonna mention the boyfriend, but the fact that she's against your partying *might* mean she'd try to change you

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    Default Re: Fork in the road which path should I choose

    That's my main sticking point Calvin, I've been doing my own thing for so long Im not sure if I'd be open for change. I know sometimes change is needed which is why I'm looking for a LTR, however my night life and being social is such a big part of me I don't want to sacrifice that. I've had friends who change once they enter a relationship and have always been completely against that so im not sure what the best way to go about this is.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Fork in the road which path should I choose

    Nothing should ever be sacrificed in a relationship(unless its an addiction of some sort) thats what compromise is about! Honestly get to know her and see where it goes from there if a relationship happens, then you should be on same page as to what your social lives are all about
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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