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    Default Need help texting a hottie

    Let me preface this post by saying this girl initially told me that she doesn't want to date anyone. I just ignored this and continued talking to her.

    I met this really cool chick at the beach and we hit it off well. I used a direct opener and we ended up talking for about a half hour with plenty of Kino and attraction and comfort. I told her that I had to go and she insisted that we walk back to our cars together. So far this is the best interaction with a chick I've had with day game.

    Later that night I use text back humor and this is our text convo so far:

    Me: Squatting her name! I'll come up with a better nickname when I get to know you better. :P

    Her: hahahahahaha clever, Very clever.

    The next day

    Me: I know you're not down for dating so I say we fly to vegas, get married, adopt an African child(callback humor), get divored, and grow old lonely and depressed.

    Me: That was a joke btw, except for the African baby.

    Her: Haha you are a funny one my name, haha.

    I feel like I'm messing this up. Please critique and any advise on how to continue would be awesome.

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    Default Re: Need help texting a hottie

    Honestly, If she doesn't want to date, she's saying she's not interested in you

    All girls want to date when they find a guy that makes their heart twitter

    First piece - don't remind her it was a joke, shoulda left it
    The married part is funny enough itself, but you don't want to bring up the topic of "dating" again. Invite her on a date once you build more attraction, but don't call it a date

    Meanwhile you need more attraction and curiosity, she needs to be more interested in you first

    For all text forums I'm gonna point you to tmals definitive guide
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...al-bible.html#

    Second, if it comes up, you can't push for anything formal. Shoot, try to accuse her of it if you can, "this is So not a date", but the timing has to be right

    Do not go trying to convince her to change her mind, unless you're gonna turn the tables, leave the topic alone

    And review this for the idea of dating multiple people
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    Default Re: Need help texting a hottie

    Thank you Red Baron. I have read that Texting bible post it was very informative.

    I was hoping for specific advice on what to text her next. Should I wait a day or two and try to re-initiate or should I respond now with something?

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    Default Re: Need help texting a hottie

    Wait 2 days, reopen with a joke

    If you do it now when she's showed disinterest, you risk killing it

    Now a small note, you can disqualify her later with a reference to this again, "hey keep this up and we're never getting married!", only when she says something you want to tease her about

    Actually, you could re-open with the marriage,
    "so I'm thinking our honeymoon somewhere tropical, lots of meaningless sex for a week before we divorce. Should we go with Jamaica or Cancun?"

    Something like that. And yes the meaningless sex bit is important and funny, and the idea of meaningless sex conveys that you don't care about a relationship, without bringing the topic up again


    Although if you come up with another joke it's good too, I had a girl I called kitten so I sent her once something like "I swear I just saw your twin drinking milk on the porch, but her fur was a little darker"

    Anything about her you can tease about works with the twin thing
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    Default Re: Need help texting a hottie

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Wait 2 days, reopen with a joke

    If you do it now when she's showed disinterest, you risk killing it
    Awesome. Thanks for the advice again. The meaningless sex bit sounds pretty good. I once texted a girl about the mail man comeing all over her face and me spanking her ass and she was super receptive and wanted to meet for coffee. I guess mentioning sex in a third person or joking sort of way gets them attracted?

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    Default Re: Need help texting a hottie

    Here's another little tip that could be helpful...

    I normally start out with sexual innuendo to gauge a girl's receptiveness in the beginning. If she responds positively, then I'll ramp up the flirting & escalation & build "Rapid Attraction.

    If she doesn't pick up on the innuendo (or shows signs of resistance) I'll take a slightly more gradual approach with the flirting & add a little more rapport /comfort & take another shot after a couple days.

    By then, I can usually tell where things are going & whether or not I'm just spinning my wheels.

    #Advice - Don't be afraid to put a girl in your friend zone.
    By giving her hints that you're doing that, you can actually make her feel challenged & get her to pursue you.

    It doesn't always work, but it's still better than investing a ton of time & effort into something that simply isn't going to happen.



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    Default Re: Need help texting a hottie

    I was actually thinking I would start with a minor neg since she is 18 and I'm 24. She probably thinks that I want her now so maybe some Push Pull as well.

    Perhaps something like: Hey dork, guess what?

    Do you advise this?


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