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    Default Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    Ok,

    So (as previously posted), met a girl a week ago at a mates party. Didnt game heroer se at the party,but showed lots of dhv. Asked my mates gf for her number but she said as she has just come out of a relationship recently she would give her mine, fine whatever. A few days later my mate texts me her number along with a comment that she wants me to chase her.

    So I texted her the following (props to the forum member who suggested this).

    Hi motormouth (she talks a lot), was nice to meet you at Alan's last week. Selina (my mates gf) said you wanted to meet up, so what what will it be, coffee or pub?

    Thinking that maybe that was the wrong opener as not heard from her for over 24 hours.

    Wondering if it is worth one more shot, maybe along the lines of.

    I know you want me to do the chasing, good job I was always awesome at tag. So one more time, coffee or pub?

    What do people think?

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    Default Re: Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    I would go with something less needy & obvious right now.
    Also- Don't try for the meet-up just yet...
    Your main objective at the moment is simply getting her to respond & start the interaction & flirting.

    Then, after you've had some consistency in getting replies, you can shoot for the "get together" & be less likely to face resistance or rejection.

    So, for now just start with something light & fun.

    Here are a couple examples of texts I've used a few times after meeting a girl:
    "There may or may not be a briefcase full of money in my trunk... what do you think the odds are? "

    Or

    "What's goin on, little swan? You're not in jail are you? I hope not, 'cause I can't afford bail! "

    or

    "A basket of puppies & an ice cold beer... I could use ONE of these things right now."

    These work because; they're different than what a guy would normally send her, so it gets her attention and she remembers it.
    They also make her smile or laugh, which is never a bad thing!

    Being unique & separating yourself from every other DipSh1t trying to get her attention, is what will garner the best results.


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    Default Re: Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    I would go with something less needy & obvious right now..
    Agreed

    Also- Don't try for the meet-up just yet...
    Isnt it too late for that as i have already tried to go for the date in my previous text?

    I appreciate your suggestions but I am wondering if I have spoiled the game to an extent by already suggesting a date?

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    Default Re: Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    Has she responded to you yet? JUst curious because it may have been spoiled

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    Default Re: Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    Quote Originally Posted by rfjammer View Post
    Agreed



    Isnt it too late for that as i have already tried to go for the date in my previous text?

    I appreciate your suggestions but I am wondering if I have spoiled the game to an extent by already suggesting a date?
    Nahhh, it's not too late.
    Just act like you never even asked her out.
    I know that sounds like it's a ridiculously simple solution... and it is. But it works.

    It's like when a girl sh1t tests you... one way of dealing with it is to ignore it like she never said it, & just plow through to something else.

    You can do the same thing in this situation.
    Just confidently let it go & start from the beginning....
    Send her a couple silly texts to engage (Flirt, tease, banter... build attraction & have fun..)

    THEN, set up a get-together.
    And when you do, do it with confidence & make IT sound fun too.
    Something in this sort of style...

    "Hey mamacita! I need tacos.. like really bad!! Roll with me to XXXX this Friday @ 7:03. My treat! "

    instead of:
    "So, do you maybe want to go out this weekend or something?"

    Or

    "Would you be interested in having dinner sometime?" etc...

    Be confident & think like "The Godfather" - Make her an offer she can't refuse...



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    Default Re: Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    Good news, sort of. She did reply and said she fancied the pub BUUUUUT it turns out it was at the prompting of my mates gf, which has put me on the back foot a little - will find a nice pub in the area and ensure I set it up in such a way that we can roll on to something else after about an hour or so.

    Any suggestions on how I should play this due to my mates gfs 'interference/helping hand'?

    Was just going to do things as normal but wondering if I need to do something a little 'different' in these circumstances.

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    Default Re: Have I farked this up? Can I recover?

    I don't think you should do anything different than you normally would.
    Don't act like it's awkward because of a little outside help/influence; just be confident & fun. Make her feel thankful that her friend prompted & suggested to give it a shot.

    Just keep an Alpha mentality about it & make it a great time.


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