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    Default What kind of response is needed here? I feel time for escalation...

    Let me just do an excerpt here of what I said, and an excerpt of how she responded,

    Me:
    Strangest injury ever, it happened on a rest day. I can't even skip and I love practicing footwork with a rope I just massage it with some menthol rub and it feels better So how FAST is your time! You look fit (and pretty cute) so it better be quicker than mine

    Her:
    "...anything competitive I'm there. Thanks for making me laugh..I'm fit yeah lol, fit for what?"
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    "I do the treadmill some days its ok...I feel like a hamster n get bored. I get very easily distracted. Now stick someone beside me running and I'm giving it my all...and enjoying it bc in my head we r racing. Or a cute guy running beside me does the trick on making me run faster and for a longer period. Its all psychological."

    We've exchanged 3 times, I think its time for a number, absolutely. Things are going well if you ask me. She messaged me with a few sentences and its turned into 3-4 paragraphs back and forth with my trying to stay on similar message lengths.

    I just don't get where shes going with the FIT FOR WHAT comment. Is it a test for me to fail by saying, FIT TO fark so she can write me off lol? Obviously that's not my style.

    I think I may respond with something like "Hey. You're FIT to run along side me, since I am that cute guy that will make you run as fast and long as you can. Give me your number."

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    Default Re: What kind of response is needed here? I feel time for escalation...

    She's being receptive to playful interaction... AKA- she's flirting!

    Her "fit for what" comment left the door wide open to escalate!

    This girl is definitely showing interest, so turn up the heat just a bit. (Don't go overboard & creep her out by being overtly sexual or crude... but she's dropping hints BIG TIME my friend!)



    Keep up the fun, silly, playful vibe & then tell her:
    "Ya know, you're a lot cooler than I expected... AND you don't give me the impression of being a stalker. So, I'm thinking I'm probably OK with swapping digits with you. BUT.. there's one burning question that must be answered..."

    Her reply is 99.9999% guaranteed to be: "What's the burning question?"

    To which you reply: "That question would be- What's your number? "

    That approach has not failed me yet... and I've used it more than a dozen times.


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    Default Re: What kind of response is needed here? I feel time for escalation...

    There's some references in here that you may not catch because I only excerpted her message in my previous post. Here is what I wrote. I felt pretty confident about it so its already set in stone, but I'd love to know how my game is progressing lol
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    What! You're already bashing my yoga skills? That sounds like a challenge lol. But I'm warning you, if cute guys distract you on the treadmill then your definitely going to need A LOT more time for yoga with me around lol.

    You're pretty fast, at your level i'd say you're fit for anything that works up a sweat, but you like being competitive so I wouldn't let you win easy if you went against me!

    You're a lot cooler than I expected... AND you don't give me the impression of being a stalker. So, I'm thinking we should trade numbers... but there's one more thing i need to ask you...
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    Default Re: What kind of response is needed here? I feel time for escalation...

    Bingo!
    That's the style you want to go with!

    Great interaction! You're complementing her personality & athleticism, but still giving her a playful tease/small neg.

    Nice work man!


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