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Thread: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

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    Default Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    Some backstory. So over the weekend, one of my buddies lets me know that his friend thinks I am cute. So I talk to her and get her number and this is what I texted her a few days later aka today. Also, prior to me finding out she thought I was cute I hooked up with one her close friends.. oops haha

    Me: hey :P (2:14pm)
    Her: hey what's upp (11:04 pm)
    Me: Nothin, you just popped into my mind so I wanted to say hi! (11:40 pm)
    Her: Oh really? Randomly! And hiii. (11:41 pm)
    Me: Well I wouldn't say randomly haha. I have a very important question to ask you... (11:53 pm)
    Her: Yea what's that (11:56pm)
    Me: What do you like to do in your free time? (12:10 am)
    Her: Why do you care? (12:12 am)
    Me: Because I think you are cool and I want to get to know you better!(12:26 pm)

    She never responded. The last few exchanges made me cringe. Looking back I made lots of of mistakes. I realize I am a noob and look like a creeper here. Any advice/ help would greatly be appreciated. As well as what to do to recover, if possible.

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    Default Re: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    The "getting to know her" stage comes after attraction building and qualifying her. Focus on teasing and being playful. When she seems attracted then move into qualification THEN you can get to know her. Let her know you're a challenge first before you start showing that much interest.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    Thanks for the response, I will work on that. Do you recommend doing anything to pull myself out of this hoe? Or, should I just move on?

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    Default Re: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    I would Freeze Out for about a week or two then open with the classic "Omg I think I saw your twin." When/if she responds then follow up with saying "She was taller/shorter than you though. I love taller/shorter women."

    " But you have nicer nails and that totally means something "
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    personally, I think "what do you like to do in your freetime" is way too serious of a question to be asking over text. from her point of view, where is this conversation going and how is it building attraction? How does it differentiate you from what other guys are saying?

    I like the important question part, but do something like.. big dogs or small dogs, and why? This shows youre playful, but also curious in getting to know her.

    After why do you care...def need to tease her or something here. You're in a tough spot tho, and I would try to avoid getting there.

    I think you might be able to recover though. Give it some time and text her monday morning.

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    Default Re: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    ill agree with batman on this, def Freeze Out and i like that line about having seen her twin, might use that myself batman haha.
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    Default Re: Overreached, How bad did I fark up?

    When u said "I have a very important question to ask you" i bet she freaked out because it ws ur first time texting..in addition to that it made her curious to know u shuld've teased with "Ok i just forgot but ill ask later when i remember" to which she wuldve insisted u ask but say "Im not comfortable with u yet thats why i might have forgotten"

    And
    You: what do u like to do in ur freetime
    Her: why do u care
    You: i want to make sure i wont hav to spend money on u since it'll be freetime

    And haha btw we meet again buddy..


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