This is my first post on puaforums. I've been an attentive reader for quite some time, but actually never registered. I hope now to be part of this community. So, here's my problem:
About a month ago, I met a girl and I really liked her, while we didn't make out, I did a Number Close successfully. About a week later, I messaged her telling her something like: "We should go out to a coffee sometime" and she replied "Yeah, we could do that". After a couple more messages, it seemed like she wasn't really interested any more, so I actually never messaged her again. Now, a week ago, I was at a party and I found her there. She quickly came to me and gave me a hug telling me "You never told me anything more...". And notice how it seemed like she was picking me up: she just held my hand and we both left our friends and went into Isolation. There, I made my move and kissed her and it went on for the rest of the night, we both enjoyed it. Then, she went home and I asked her if she could send me a message when she got home and she did, so I felt like mission accomplished. At the beginning of this week, I sent her a message telling her that we should go on a date and she accepted. It's for tomorrow. I used today's free time to research the place I suggested and also kind of plan a sequence of events for the date, even though I don't want it to seem forced, I just want to be the one leading as we men should. The thing is, I'm not used to this sequence of events. Truth be told, we have exchanged more saliva than words only because we don't really talk much by Text (and believe me, I've tried) and also when we're in person, I don't know, we both get shy and end up not talking much again.
Since I was in the neighbourhood, I also surprised her today. I went to her college and sent her a message telling her I was there and she quickly came to me and kissed me. I got to finally meet her friends and noticed something: even though she's an HB8, she's not really the leader of her group of friends (even though she's the best one), she also doesn't seem to have that high of self-esteem and I got to know that she broke up about a year ago with her ex (no details). So I'm getting really confused, since I think I'm actually falling for this girl. Things are getting really strange, really fast.
Do you have any advice you can give me?
Thanks a lot in advance,