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    Default setting up date, and she suggests group activity..?

    Hey guys? Tips on how to handle this one...

    Ever try to set up a date with a girl (usually via text), and she suggests some sort of a group hangout or other non-date like activity? I hate that! Its like she cant take a hint or shes nervous.

    Particularily in this example case online: girl gave me her number, been texting the last couple nights keeping it fun and flirty, then tonight when I said to her "come meet me out for a drink tomorrow night" she says back...

    "We could if you want to meet me at *****, I'll be there with friends watching the band"

    Dosnt seem like a bad deal.... but I've never met this girl and friends around would be just weird first time.

    Whats a good counter text to these situations?

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    Default Re: setting up date, and she suggests group activity..?

    good post very good insight into pua

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    Default Re: setting up date, and she suggests group activity..?

    Thanks, anyone have some uniqe ideas?

    I usually just try to stay alpha and stick to my plan "well i was just thinking more the two of us" ... but I'm afraid that can risk invoking a "being pursued" autopilot Mindset in the girl.

    Also have tried a tease "ahh so your a scardycat" & then " what do you think Im gonna take you in my house and tie you up? You might be dreaming about that tomorrow, but not happening tonight " which has had good results on occasion.

    Other thoughts though on the best method?

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    Default Re: setting up date, and she suggests group activity..?

    This is actually the first date I had in my last LTR. I was in school and saw this chick almost daily so I had time to build up to it and then I invited myself to one of her friends birthdays downtown.

    We drove together, but I didn't pay much attention to her. I actually talked to the other girls more, which seemed to work in getting her more attracted to me.

    I forgot how, but she ended up hitting my face accidentally and I said OW MY EYE, you're going to have to kiss it better. She went to do so and I switched it up and went in for the kill. That ended up lasting 2.5 years.

    Just wanted to give you some insight on how it went for me in the past, have fun!

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    Default Re: setting up date, and she suggests group activity..?

    Hey Rando, buddy that's not a bad thing. Start off social, shit if u can hit it off with her friends around that would be good of you
    Its like the friends test, kind of ass backward style of having her obstacles lower their guards.
    Plus, the fact that u met online, she could just be more precautious, a lot of stalkers out there u know

    Also the fact u just said 'lets go out for a drink' translates in a girls mind to:
    We will get tipsy hanging out then fool around..
    So she might be trying to avoiding coming off sleazy, so she avoided that.
    Try being a little more creative, or funny with ur date proposals.

    After all tho, it sounds like she's interested.. so just say 'ya ok wats your number ill call u before' and find out.
    Even if she agrees u don't have to go still, say ur busy all the sudden.

    Go for it that isn't a bad thing she's doin to ya, imo


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