Well I see where you may have messed up in revealing to much of yourself during the first encounter you should have held something back to keep her interested so now she feels she knows all about you and no longer a challenge. Read the Triangle technique and you seem to have a good start already by hanging out with another HB8, and just ignore the other HB. With the new HB8 don't fall for the bait of revealing to much of yourself to early learn from the first mistake and always keep something in reserve. Also I know you said that you live in a small town but I'm sure you can think of something exciting to do with your buds and show these HB's that you are an exciting and interesting person this way it gives them the impression that you have a life on your own, and will be seen as a great challenge.