Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone
friend zone is a pretty clean cut issue. It may have been in your kino or conversation or both.
DO NOT take it slow. Remember...nice guys finish last. Why? Because they worry about HER too much. They want to make sure she is nice and comfortable and end up taking it slow. Then she gets frustrated because he's not escalating and ends up banging someone else.
Increase your sexuality towards her. Be confident in your desires. Increase the flirting, teasing (sounds like you did fine with those things) and lastly.....increase your kino with her. (which is where I'm guessing where the problem is) If you didn't get a chance to kiss her on the first date then you should've at least had her thinking about it. By the second date you should've at least kissed.
I think you still got a chance here. It's not the worst thing to be friend zoned. If anything it can help if you know how to use it to your advantage.
So now agree with her that you just want to be friends, but keep meeting her. Hide her from her inhibitions so when things start to happen, she'll have it in her mind "I don't know how, but things just HAPPENED." Use every attraction trick in the book. jealousy plots, push/pull statements, roleplaying, teasing, punishment/reward, Kino Escalation. Then move onto qualification. Find reasons about her that make her unique and tell her about them. If she seems resistant then you qualified her too early. So just use a disqualifier and build more attraction and try again.
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