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Thread: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

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    Default Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    Hey guys,
    I met this girl who is in my nursing class and we talked and we hit it off. I was getting plenty of IOIs so I gave it a shot and asked her if she wanted to play some mini golf on Wednesday. She answered with enthusiasm and said yes. She said can I have your number so we exchanged. Wednesday came and we met up at the place, but it was closed lol. So I suggested some ice cream. She gladly accepted and we drove there. We sat and talked for 3 hours about school and blah blah, but then she told me stuff that was really personal. She said she was nervous. She held eye contact as did eye. She touched my hands a few times when i made her laugh. I told her about my life and how I had a bad time growing up. She told me she was in an 8 year relationship that was really bad. We talked more and i decided it was time to go home. We hugged and said goodnight. She text me 10 minutes after and said she had so much fun and was looking forward to doing it again. We decided to hang again on Friday and go to a football game. We sat close together and I did some teasing and she dished it back. I made her laugh at things that were not funny. After the game said goodnight and hugged. The next few days I had to initiate all the texting, but kept it simple. I tried to arrange some dates but she kept flaking(3 times). She finally told me she likes me but she wants to be friends. She said that her last relationship really messed her up and she is hesitant of guys blah blah. She said its not you it really is me.

    Idk how to take this. Should I leave her alone or just try to take it slow

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    This is my first time posting and I'm new to pua.

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    I think its pretty clear to anyone who's been in game..im surprised u cant see where u fucked it up.. u hang out the first time and only did hugging and a goodnight kiss? moreover at the end of the date?..she compromised for the first time thats why she requested for a second date in the hopes that you'll be bold and do something..u know what i mean.. and u fucked it up again? did the same thing? i cant really tell you how many times girls lost attraction for me when i did the same thing as previously..u should have made out with her the second time- Escalation.. anyway you've been friendzoned already..Freeze Out and come back with a new name and a big beard..jk..wait 3 weeks and initiate again and be aggressive this time...i liked your date ideas though..classic

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    "and said goodnight" so it wasnt even a kiss? excuse my misreading

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    Thank you. I'll work on the beard. Thanks for the advice.
    What do you think about her ex being a d bag to her , btw I should add I know the ex and he is a d bag. If she really has issues should I still Freeze Out and come back with increased escalation

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    friend zone is a pretty clean cut issue. It may have been in your kino or conversation or both.

    DO NOT take it slow. Remember...nice guys finish last. Why? Because they worry about HER too much. They want to make sure she is nice and comfortable and end up taking it slow. Then she gets frustrated because he's not escalating and ends up banging someone else.

    Increase your sexuality towards her. Be confident in your desires. Increase the flirting, teasing (sounds like you did fine with those things) and lastly.....increase your kino with her. (which is where I'm guessing where the problem is) If you didn't get a chance to kiss her on the first date then you should've at least had her thinking about it. By the second date you should've at least kissed.

    I think you still got a chance here. It's not the worst thing to be friend zoned. If anything it can help if you know how to use it to your advantage.

    So now agree with her that you just want to be friends, but keep meeting her. Hide her from her inhibitions so when things start to happen, she'll have it in her mind "I don't know how, but things just HAPPENED." Use every attraction trick in the book. jealousy plots, push/pull statements, roleplaying, teasing, punishment/reward, Kino Escalation. Then move onto qualification. Find reasons about her that make her unique and tell her about them. If she seems resistant then you qualified her too early. So just use a disqualifier and build more attraction and try again.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    Thank you for the advice . I will definitely be doing this.

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    Where do you guys think I could take her? Think coffee during the day is alright? I live in a town with a select few thing to do. Plus its getting very cold out.

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    "As did Eye"

    I see what you did there!

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    Default Re: Need help with HB8. Two dates,but now in friend zone

    Well I waited 3 weeks, froze her out with no contact other then when she would try to talk here and there in class ( we sit next to each other) I would sound disinterestedand answer shortly. I called her last Sunday to ask her for some information on a test, she did not answer so I just did my thing throughout the day. No call back the whole day. Next day in class she said nothing about the misses call. I was talking to everyone around me about the weekened and completely ignored her. I think its done and I am going to hang with another HB8 and just forget about this girl.

    Any one else have any input?


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