Re: How do I handle this?
I hear both sides of the discussion on this and I feel you bro.
At the end of the day its gonna happen but in a sense you reminded her of something, that you can fish at will. In a sense you told her with your actions not to take you for granted and not to pull that shit on you. Women are weird bro, sometimes they just want to be put in their place, to be reminded that their man can and will at the drop of a dime walk on them. This reminds them that they have a good man and they need to hold on to him.
In a sense you must also remember this. Women will never, EVER stop testing you. In relationships, marriage it doesnt matter. They will test you. Its healthy for both of you.
Think of this scenario. I will assume that she noticed you caught her starring. So when it happened again she was testing to see what her man will do. You hae options here. To be a dick, to become jealous, confrontational and so on. All of these have a potential of backfiring depending on the situation so it is imperative to remain cool and calibrate. Dont allow your emotions to take over and I say this because sometimes they will want their man to be jealous.
Anyway, I think you did well. You didnt flip out and instead its like you told her, ok you wanna play me like a chode? Dont forget your man can do this! And you showed her that you can leave and find another. She respinded by reclaiming her man. This is good in my opinion. You told your woman that you are still an alpha male that can have any other woman and she isnt the only in the world. So it reminds her to not take you for granted.
Again dude women will continue to test you. Its healthy. Its a subconcious behavior that you cant stop. All your woman wants is to be reminded that she has a great man. She will test your frame to make sure you are still the same dude she fell in love with and so on. So give her what she wants and dont become a confrontation, emotional lacking chode. This is where most guys fail. I know because I used to be married and blah blah log story.
Trust me dude. Brush it off, dont adress it. It was a mini battle and you won. Touche sir!
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