Hey guys i need some advice on how to handle this. My girlfriend seems to be spending too much time with this guy she works with.(we live together) She works from the hours of 3:30pm to 12:00am. What bothers me is the fact that she gets rides home from him after work and she comes inside the house sometimes an hour late. When she comes in she tells me shes sorry shes been out ranting and talking. She doesnt do this everyday but its often. what i have been doing lately is when she gets in i would ask her where shes been. Once she tells me that shes been out talking with him i would say ok and turn my back to her and go to sleep. She does the same. In the morning we still seem to be at heads. Would it be better if i left out in the morning for the whole day? my question is how long should i keep my attention withdrawn from her. Another question is should i do the same that shes doing as in go out with a female friend and start hanging with her? and if so should i tell my girlfriend that when she asks me where im going in the morning or should i make something up and just say im going out? whats a good way to handle this?