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    nokins is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to handle this situation in a PUA manner

    Hey guys i need some advice on how to handle this. My girlfriend seems to be spending too much time with this guy she works with.(we live together) She works from the hours of 3:30pm to 12:00am. What bothers me is the fact that she gets rides home from him after work and she comes inside the house sometimes an hour late. When she comes in she tells me shes sorry shes been out ranting and talking. She doesnt do this everyday but its often. what i have been doing lately is when she gets in i would ask her where shes been. Once she tells me that shes been out talking with him i would say ok and turn my back to her and go to sleep. She does the same. In the morning we still seem to be at heads. Would it be better if i left out in the morning for the whole day? my question is how long should i keep my attention withdrawn from her. Another question is should i do the same that shes doing as in go out with a female friend and start hanging with her? and if so should i tell my girlfriend that when she asks me where im going in the morning or should i make something up and just say im going out? whats a good way to handle this?

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    Default Re: How to handle this situation in a PUA manner

    I wouldnt withdraw too much attention as she may go some where else to find it, which could be this other guy. Does she just get rides home with his guy or actually hangout? What i would do is one day say your in the area of her work and that youll pick her up, if she resists getting a ride with you she may value the other guy more then you, if not then i dont think you have anything to worry about. Im not much of a relationship person so my advice may not be the the greatest, but that is what i would do.

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    nokins is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to handle this situation in a PUA manner

    Last week she went out with the guy and got drunk. They have hung out occasionally before. She knows i have a problem with it.

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    Default Re: How to handle this situation in a PUA manner

    Looking for her all of a sudden by trying to pick her up at work is obviously jealousy and is Beta. Finding someone to hang out with only to retaliate in the same manner that she is treating you is Beta. Don't play her game, and don't let her play you. Don't be passive, passive-aggressive, or aggressive about it. Be assertive. It's clear to me that there is jealousy, a lack of trust, and communication. Now, of course there is a great lack of details from a single post, but from the sound of it, it's safe to just realistically assume he is going deep inside them sugar walls or just about ready to.

    Personally, I would not stand for that behavior. If it has been made clear that you do not like that relationship she has with her coworker, then there is no reason to tolerate it any longer. If there isn't much you can do (definitely don't do anything illegal or stupid like trying to snap his or her s*** up, I'm serious, not being sarcastic), then walk away. She will step all over you more and more, and you will only behave more Beta. She isn't worth your time and your value will surely go down the longer you stay and tolerate her crap. Move on and date other women, not to get back at her, but for yourself. It isn't so much about handling it in a PUA manner, but an Alpha manner.

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    nokins is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to handle this situation in a PUA manner

    That sounds like good advice and thats what im ready to do but at the same time, if i am going out and having a good time with my ladies i could care less about what she does. And i see it as if I start doing this she will be the one to eventually become jealous and If she is going to continue hanginout with the person than so am I. I dunno maybe im going about it wrong but thats how i see it

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    Default Re: How to handle this situation in a PUA manner

    I kind of see what you mean, but it sounds like you are attached. Just move on if you're at that point. If you stick around and tolerate it, it lowers your value and it will affect you, especially since you live with her. She doesn't give a damn about you. If you are willing to spend time with other women, then just go all out and break up with this girl. She isn't worth it anymore, and even if she tries to come back, which I can guarantee she will once you walk away, don't take her back. Finalize it. Just move on with yourself. She isn't genuine and has clearly lost interest.


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