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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Alright, as promised, here's how the conversation went. A little weird at a couple points but it seems to have worked.

    Me: Hey, I'm gonna be blunt with you for a second, can you handle that?

    Her: Okay, go

    Me: I've got to know, what's keeping us from being friends with benefits?

    Her: I don't like being friends with benefits

    Me: And why is that?

    Her: Because someone always ends up caring and getting jealous and it's never me. Then it leads to drama and turns into why can't we just date and then feelings get hurt.

    Me: Haha it's funny that you say that because I though I was the one who ends up not caring. I'm not that type of guy. (Looking at this now I probably could have said something along the lines of "You watch too many romantic comedies" or something to that effect.)

    Her: Right

    Me: It's cool if you don't believe me. But I know what I want, and I keep my sh1t in check.

    Her: Ya then I get bored and like someone else more than you and move on because we never had a commitment together then you get mad and your feelings get hurt.

    Her: It'll happen.

    Me: I can guarantee that wouldn't happen. Like I said I'm not that type of guy. I just want to have some fun and thought that you'd be on board with the idea.

    Her: Ehhh

    Me: How about this, try me. Let's have some fun and if you get bored or you get weird about it, we'll stop, problem solved.

    Her: I thought we were kind of already doing that..


    There was some more after that, nothing noteworthy. Essentially just setting up a time to get together again, which is looking like next week. I know the conversation could have gone a lot smoother. Any suggestions on what I could have done differently?

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    nicceeeeee dude lmao, sounds like your in. looks like the chat we had last night paid off
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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Hopefully, lol. I feel like I was a little AFC at a couple points here though, care to critique me on what I could have done better?

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Also, she's busy this entire week, so I just told her that I'm gonna get in touch with her next week, is that the right thing to do?

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    yeah ithink thats pretty alpha, i think though that it dragged on a little long, if it was me i would have stopped about halfway through that and said your loss, otherwise it sounds a little like begging but overall good job though mate
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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Thanks a lot for the help brutha

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    no problem dood, happy to help
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