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    Default Need some solid advice on this girl

    Hey folks,

    So a little bit of back story on this one. Met her at a party at my place about a month or so ago, I got her into bed the first night I met her, it was great. She texted me the next day and said she'd be interested in doing it again, which we did a couple weeks ago at another party of mine.

    Since the last time we hooked up, I've kept texting to a minimum, only texting to set up another time to meet up, which we did, but only to get coffee, and that was about a week ago.

    My issue is that I need something more solid to tell this girl via text message to make my intentions clear.

    A couple other things, she's 18, I'm 22, so unfortunately she has a curfew some nights (stupid I know). She's also very good at brushing off my negs and coming back with a witty response, she's a very confident girl for her age it seems, which is odd.

    Essentially, she still seems interested in hooking up and what not, but I need some solid tips on what to tell this girl to keep her interest and to build attraction via text message. Thanks in advance gents, any advice is greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    I think the problem might be that she thinks that you´re not that interested since you barely text her. Remember that this girl is young and probably not to confident in herself even though she gives that expression. You can't expect her to jump in bed with you just because you´re acting like a man with confident.
    My advice would be to suggest a meeting at bar, have a few beers to losen her up and then suggest a glas of wine or something at your place (or her place). Skip the coffee!

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    im assuming that since shes 18 you cant take her to a bar to drink depending on where you are, and i am going to have to disagree but in order to help you i need to know what you are hoping to get from her
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Gnarfskt View Post
    I think the problem might be that she thinks that you´re not that interested since you barely text her. Remember that this girl is young and probably not to confident in herself even though she gives that expression. You can't expect her to jump in bed with you just because you´re acting like a man with confident.
    My advice would be to suggest a meeting at bar, have a few beers to losen her up and then suggest a glas of wine or something at your place (or her place). Skip the coffee!
    I definitely see where you're coming from, but it's difficult for me to see how she hasn't picked up on my interest. We've slept together twice now, after the second time she told me that she though that she wouldn't see me after the first time and she was glad we got to do it again, as was I. That coupled with the fact that I've tried to set up a date multiple times for us to hang out, but that's made a little difficult by the fact that she has a curfew as I stated above.

    I'm just looking for some pointers on what I should text her to better convey my interest in her sexually without seeming needy. Thanks for the advice though my friend, I'm not saying you're wrong, just explaining my outlook on the situation.

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    shes picking up on it, but you need to lead the situation, no matter what you want from her. youve gotta be in control of everything, thats what she wants and thats what shes waiting for. i could tell you what to tell her if i knew your intentions
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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    im assuming that since shes 18 you cant take her to a bar to drink depending on where you are, and i am going to have to disagree but in order to help you i need to know what you are hoping to get from her
    She's a great girl, and I enjoy her company, but the ideal situation for both of us seems to be leading towards friends with benefits, maybe going to dinner or grabbing coffee every now and then, but we both want sex for the most part it seems.

    Ultimately I'm trying to maintain the attraction when she isn't able to hang out via text message and keep her interested, thanks for the reply.

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    they had a video on here not too long ago about how to text girls, and keep them interested but i cant remember for the life of me how it said to do it. if i were you i would try calling. its a lot easier that way. ill get back to you with what to say
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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    they had a video on here not too long ago about how to text girls, and keep them interested but i cant remember for the life of me how it said to do it. if i were you i would try calling. its a lot easier that way. ill get back to you with what to say
    Thanks a lot brother, it's greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    no problem bro, happy to help and ill def get back to you with what to say, def still try to keep the contact to a minimum, remain alpha, and whatever you do dont change your routine or your attitude or the way your treating her considering that what your doing is working.at the very most we need one message to state your intentions or better yet imply them without coming right out and saying it but still saying it clearly enough to where she doesnt have to play 20 questions with you trying to figure out what your getting at
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    Default Re: Need some solid advice on this girl

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    no problem bro, happy to help and ill def get back to you with what to say, def still try to keep the contact to a minimum, remain alpha, and whatever you do dont change your routine or your attitude or the way your treating her considering that what your doing is working.at the very most we need one message to state your intentions or better yet imply them without coming right out and saying it but still saying it clearly enough to where she doesnt have to play 20 questions with you trying to figure out what your getting at
    Exactly! My struggle is trying to find that happy medium. I'd love to just tell her "Listen, you need to get over here so I can f**k your brains out". God knows that's not going to happen though, and I'm not about to be unnecessarily vague either.


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