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    Default Re: Hot & Cold - what to do??

    cheers guys for all the replies.

    Since the weekend I decided to send a few texts today and her replies were pretty much all short and not very forth-coming, then she stopped replying all together.

    I just don't get how it can go from her being so caught up & keen in me on the weekend to now where it seems so distant, just doesn't make sense.

    And just to clear it up 1st date was long ago, have been on many with her before it went pear-shaped.

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    Default Re: Hot & Cold - what to do??

    Yeah, gotta move fast Bro so they don't get bored
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Hot & Cold - what to do??

    Hello american_nub.

    Reading your first post, i went through eerily the same thing some months ago that you are going through now. I'm not an expert but Daltonbrayall has nailed it perfectly. Keep the communication on but limited, and freeze when necessary. If you sense that you are going beta, tap the brakes. Keep going out with other chics too and have things to do so you would not be over-thinking things because once she knows what you are up too, she would realize that you have a life and that you would not keep waiting on her. I would bet that most of her nonsense will come to a halt.

    Another factor to the hot & cold that i noticed is the monthly's women go thru. You know, the first 1/2 of the cycle approximately, they would be hot - all into you, texting, wanna go out, flirty, everything is honky dory. Then the second 1/2 approx they would be cold - withdrawn, sleepy, hard to get, bi**hy. I noticed that with the girl i'm dealing with some months ago. It may seem weird but get a calender and mark off the times she was "hot" and the times she was "cold" with you. You may notice a pattern. The pattern may be off if she has a health condition or got sick for example.

    I wish for you to continue updating this post so i myself can learn since we are in a similar situation. Cheers!

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    valid suggestion about the pattern but there doesn't seem to be a pattern at all. Definitely useful for the future though! She's froze out all week completely too so see what happens, I'll keep the thread updated but I think this one's a lost cause lol.

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    Default Re: Hot & Cold - what to do??

    not really much of an update.

    Have had no contact since the last time. Saw her out last night, she came running over to me, gave me a hug. I was very drunk so just said hey to her and then i don't remember much else, but apparently i just walked off lol. I was with another girl who's fairly attractive so maybe that didn't help.

    Still no contact, although there have been a few blatant facebook status's about me (not bad ones). I'm pretty much just letting it go until she sorts her life out.


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