hey guys, hit a spot and not sure where to go from here.
Long story short, met a girl at a club (she's 20 I'm 24), had a good night, made out all night. Went our own way home that night. Went on a fair few dates. LOTS of texts (1000 per week roughly). She told her friends I was her boyfriend (even though nothing was official), introduced me to everyone she knew, etc.
The first things that started confusing me were how she acted differently in front of her friends. She acted as if I wasn't there or she'd rather be with her friends. This was only while she had been drinking. When it was just her and I it was fine. We'd been dating around 5 weeks or so, things were going pretty well. She only really wanted to see me on weekends and occasionally during the week which seemed a little odd. She is a shy person however and gets nervous easily.
I'd also found out shortly after I'd met her she had just come out of a relationship (under 12 months) but it apparently ended badly. At the time she said she just didn't want to rush things because she was scared of being hurt again. It's now been 3 months since her breakup.
Anyway, eventually i got sick of games she started to play recently - going hot & cold - so I decided to stop seeing/texting her. She said it was because she isn't sure she's ready for a relationship because she's still hurt from the past ones - Not sure if it's a brush off or true. I did originally meet her just 3 weeks after the break up however. So I pretty much told her when she knows what she wants to come and find me. Shortly after this she had a facebook status saying how she was upset etc etc etc. Anyway, I'd stopped messaging for a week when she initiated contact again, sending lots of flirtly messages. We'd organised another meet the following week (i'm willing to take things slow only because its not often i find somebody I really like). The past weekend I said I was going out clubbing on the friday night with my mates and it was extremely evident she got the s**ts about it, even though we weren't dating anymore and signals were completely mixed. The saturday night she wanted me to meet her out clubbing but I didn't go out. Ever since, all messages have been short, with no goodnight msgs at all (first 2 nights ever none have been sent lol). Messages seem to have gone cold.
So pretty much I'm not sure where to head from here, it's driving me insane. Any help or suggestions will be appreciated!!