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    sagirl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to come back from seeming too needy?

    So i met this girl at a club 2 weeks ago (im also a girl by the way). So she came up to me and asked to dance, soon we were making out. when the club closed she asked me to come back to her flat, but i couldn't (i had college the next morning) so i got her number and she texted me about an hour after to wish me a good night. a couple of days later we bumped into each other in the same club. pretty much the same thing happened again, danced, made out, invited me back to hers. But again i couldnt stay that night. so I texted her a few days later asking her out on a date the weekend after next. She said " sure! anytime! xx"

    Now that all seems good however the weekend directly after that i texted her on friday asking how she was doing, she asked if i was out that night and it turned out we were clubbing in the same area. so i asked her to text me when she got to the club i was at, she said she would but never did. instead she called me at 5 am (quite drunk) saying she was lost and couldn't get home. so i invited her back to mine and gave her directions, she agreed to come but never showed up. The next night she messaged me apologizing for being so drunk (but no mention of not showing up at mine) and asking if i was out that night. i was so asked her if she was out as well. she never replied so i texted her again a few hours later telling her what club i was at. but again no answer. so i got quite drunk and ended up calling her 3 or 4 times that night ( twice at 3 am, and once or twice at 4 am)
    Now its been a few days and ive heard nothing from her, i feel like although she was initally very forward i seemed a little desperate on the weekend and have blown it. Any advice? or am i just being paranoid. Sorry for the long post. thanks for any help guys

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    Default Re: How to come back from seeming too needy?

    Quote Originally Posted by sagirl View Post
    (...)so i got quite drunk and ended up calling her 3 or 4 times that night ( twice at 3 am, and once or twice at 4 am)
    Now its been a few days and ive heard nothing from her,(,,,)
    My first instinct would be to freeze her out for a few weeks and then start the seduction process from scratch with a stronger Mindset.

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    sagirl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to come back from seeming too needy?

    Thanks for the reply, she texted me back tho on the weekend and i think its all good. supposed to be seeing her sometime next week.


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