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    BlazerFan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    So, I'm new in LA and don't know to many people. Just broke up with GF. My acquaintance from college who just moved here told me that this girl from college told him I lived here. I was surprised because I BARELY knew her. I decided to look her up on FB. She's pretty cute and I wanna hang out with her so this is how the convo went. Keep in mind I just read about PUA a few days ago and didn't know about it when this went down.


    1st message from me
    Hey what's some of the fun bars here?

    Her
    depends. where are you living?

    Me
    (say my neighborhood)
    By the way hi Kelly. We met a few times I was probably drunk and inappropriate

    Her
    haha, hi Robbie. I remember you.
    We are neighbors. I really like (names bars and sounds positive)

    Me
    Haha (club name)? Really? I always see that place. It's a 5 min walk from my place. I yelped it and it said cholo city haha. I guess I'll give it a shot tho

    Her
    its funny for sure! Cholo city, yes! But what do you expect? We live in LA. I mean the place never closes and turns into an awesome dance party at 3 am. I don't do it often but when I do I have a great time!
    When did you move to LA anyways?

    Me
    February. But I jut recently started going out and stuff.

    her
    cool, what brought you to LA? You ever see Tim? He's living in (neighborhood) now.

    Me
    My ex gf. But it didn't work out so she moved out a few months ago and here I am. Now im getting all the "i told u so's" haha. Yeah tim came over a few weekends ago. Drank all my beer and left lol. It was good seein him.

    Her
    sorry about the gf. but on the bright side, its not raining. I saw tim the week he moved here and had the same experience.
    well if you ever want to grab a drink, I am usually around.

    Me
    Yeah for sure. What are you up to this weekend?

    Her
    I'm actually headed home to (home) for the weekend. If you don't have plans next weekend you should come with me and a few friends to the (names concert) It should be a good time!

    Me
    Im totally down. Have fun at home u can text me also 5** **3 2**9 unless u love FB chat haha.

    Her
    Get a ticket! I'll see if we have an extra but look into it! And not the biggest fan of fb chat **6-**5-3**** (her number)

    Thats the end. Haven't talked to her since Friday I think. What to do..... Any advice?

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    Gnarfskt is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    I don't really see the problem... You´ve gotten her number and she obviously don't mind meeting up with you. Just write something like "Hey (her name)! I looked into the concert, seems like it can be a pretty good one! When are you guys heading to it?"

    or if you don't wanna go to the concert write something like:

    "Hey (her name)! I can't join you for the concert some other sh1t got in the way =/ But, what do you say about grabbing a few beers (suggest a day)?

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    BlazerFan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    We had a good txt convo. I did most of the stuff right and ended it like this. "That actually makes a lot of sense alright I gotta run. Meeting a friend for drinks. Might just have to stick to the water after this morning tho haha. Talk to you later"
    An hour later she was this "Hey i forgot to ask, did you find a ticket for Saturday?"
    I wanna play this right. Any ideas? Should I bring a friend and
    Meet her there? What to say...

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    Gnarfskt is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    Well, do you wanna go to the concert or not? If no, you can just tell her that you wouldn't mind seeing her after the concert.

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    Default Re: Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    Yeah I already replied and said I'll go. She said it'll be her and 7 of her girlfriends and a few of their boy friends. So it's soundin pretty good. I'm gunna bring a friend too unless anyone thinks that's a bad idea. Ever since I found this site I've ren worrying too much about what to say haha. Gotta just go with the flow. This will definitely get my mind off my ex who I am in "no contact" with right now

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    Default Re: Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    I wish you good luck with the girl and enjoy your evening no matter what =)

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    Default Re: Need some advice moving from Facebook to texting

    Everything you did seems good. My advice would be try to keep the texting to a minimum, you have the number and by now I think you went out to the concert with her right? unless it's this weekend? Anyways, you should have a better understanding of where you guys stand. Texting is powerful if used correctly. Keep the convo's short and don't be afraid to just let a text from her hang a bit, maybe even a day.

    She seems interested as you might think, see if she wants to hang out 1v1...maybe even something casual like coffee or lunch. or if you're feeling risky, ask her out for drinks. High risks = high rewards my friend.


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