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    winston_wolfe is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I think I'm being tested

    So I sent an initial message to a online girl on a dating site. She's a 8-9.

    Here was my initial messege.

    Me: Well your profile certainly spells out your preferences for sexual activity but unfortunately not much else. Can you tell me a little more about you as a person? As much as I admire someone who is handy with a whip (seriously, I do), I’m sure there much more to get to know. What are some of your passions, your goals in life, what are some of the things that you don’t like? I like that you’re smiling in all of your pictures. For me that is usually a good indication that I’ll get along with someone. Maybe we’ll find out if you’re not too shy to write back.
    Her: Not shy, but I really should take this profile down, as I have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend now


    I'm thinking this is a test as she obviously didn't have to respond at all. Any thoughts or advice on a response?

    Thanks

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    ridemyr1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I think I'm being tested

    Do the pics look like pro pics per say, and how long is her about me? In the about me are there a lot of I's? As in I like this, I enjoy this??
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    Default Re: I think I'm being tested

    The picts are not pro and I'd say there is an average amount of I's. Let me also update the conversation. Here is what I responded:

    Me: The fact that you still have an active profile and are still logging in and checking messages tells me that youíre still looking for something even if it is on a subconscious level. Iím assuming the boyfriend and girlfriend know about each other because you seem like an upfront person and I donít think you would be dishonest. Sounds like a pretty good setup but you have to ask yourself whatís missing, are all of your needs are being fulfilled. Not just sexually, but also spiritually, psychically, mentally and emotionally. Itís hard enough to make a connection with one person so the chances that youíve made one with two people are very slim. Yes, you should delete your profile but only if youíre 100% ready to close yourself off to the other possibilities that exist.

    Her: I kept it up mainly to learn from people and hopefully make some neat friends and acquaintances, whether they're artists or writers or people with something to teach me
    Me: Artists and writers are cool if they actually create art or write. I meet a lot of people that call themselves artists but donít actually do anything except re-arrange the clutter in their tiny artist apartment. Itís kind of sad that some people really have talent but seem to waste it by being lazy. What are some of your talents? (Other than the aforementioned whip skills)

    Anyone want to weigh in on what I'm saying right or wrong?

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    Default Re: I think I'm being tested

    Assuming this profile is legit which is something I am always skeptical about.

    From the looks of it you are comiting too much into the convo. In other words younare going all in showing interest and so on and she replies with smaller messages which show smaller level of comitment into the convo.

    Online dating is very iffy dude but I have gotten better results with shorter messages and sending shit that shows lower levels of give a crap. Also if the shit being said is too good to be true it only makes me more skeptical.
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