Re: F-closed HB8.5 and feel shitty
I like this. This just means that you are gaining standards.
Do I know how to use BFDestroyers? Yes. Do I like to use them? No
It's really distasteful and, morality aside, can be pretty stressful to pull off. Which you did, however.
Unfortunately it is still possible to pull this off while a woman is in a reasonably healthy relationship. What happens is that the girl keeps denying anything would ever happen which is why she allows things to escalate as far as they do...before it's too late. This is a result of her lack of experience and not so much for her lack of happiness.
Whether it's because she was unhappy or her inexperience got the better of her, there is something that would bother me if I f-closed a girl with a bf. How is she going to handle stressful situations when she is with me? Bang someone else? I know that I bring something to the table and can make her feel things that she hasn't felt before, but that doesn't mean I can control her. She could just simply be mad at me one day and then that's all it takes. So tread carefully my friend.
I honestly think more PUAs should have standards so I'm glad for this.
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