Guys, I'm needing help in improving my game-text, day, night, and otherwise. I'm generally a decent-good looking, athletic-muscular guy (6'2, 220) who has done decent with women over the course of my life (by decent I mean, I've probably could've attracted/gotten with more girls, had I developed game and personality. I've usually had girls be attracted/interested in me to where I didn't have to do much to pursue them). I've basically been the good looking chick with nice cans with the personality of wet paint on a lot of first impressions (I generally keep to myself, not the general prescription to be a ladies man, I know).
Saying that, I now want to get this area (and others, particularly my business life) together and on and headed in the right direction. I want to become more interesting and exciting from a personality standpoint beyond the random occassion and w/o the use of alcohol. I've browsed these forums and threads but now I want to be a sponge, soaking up game and learning as much as possible.
So, I'd like to ask what would you guys do if you wanted to re-engage few HBs that you met overthe last 6-12 months and had developed attraction & rapport with, some even hooking up with a few times, but falling out of contact with. One is a HB8-9 who I hadn't texted in about 1-2 months? I ask because there's a chick who I met on POF in July and texted with and fell out of contact with. To be honest, my game was boring, the usual "what are you up to, blah-blah-blah, crap" and I did myself no favors (didn't develop attraction, rapport, spark her interest, etc., just depended on my build, looks, etc. to get me over). As much as I'd like to get in contact with her to hook up, I also want the practice. There's also a HB7.5 who I hooked up with several times, and who was into me, but it always went south. This is one that I want to get with cause, while she had good qualities (attractive, cool personality, sexual, etc.) she also would try to play a dude with sh!t tests to get things, the upper hand, etc., in the dynamic(or should I just charge it to the game as oneitis?).
I'd like to get some ways to re-engage both of them and other HBs and get my game (text, day, night, etc.) greatly improved. Please drop some advise, critiques, pointers, etc., it'll be greatly appreciated.