Ok heres the deal... First off, all this went down before I read MM, I just read the book, and started clicking around these forums, not finding anything specific to my situation. I'm about halfway through MM, so Now that I have nothing but MM in my head, i don't wanna fark up the next move, but I also don't want to have to much of a vicious time-gap and loose a shot.
I'm 34, she is 22. She knew it was my b-day the other day and didn't ask how old I was. Could this mean age isn't an issue? or that she don't care because intentions aren't to hook up anyway?
I've been going to this diner with my Pop for the last few weeks. This waitress who pretty much always waits on us, I always had my eyes on. The other day we start talking and it turns out she is from my area (45 mins away from Diner) and we also attend aa meetings in our area. When I said take my number and maybe we'll hit meetings together, she whipped her phone out and told me to add my number in her phone and that she will text me later so I have her number. I left.
She then texted me right when she was driving home from work that day (about 5 hours later) we had a friendly conversation back and forth that day. The next day she texted me and asked what I thought about the fact of meeting the way we did, and how bizarre it was. I replied; "Bizzare in a very good way" She then replies "yeahhh it is, i don't believe in coincidences"
A couple friendly "what are you doin" type messages the next day, that was it. I went a whole day (yesterday) without a text to or from her. Now, today, I'm trying to make a move and ask her out tonight. I feel like if i don't I'm in friendship zone, which I don't feel im in at this point yet, right?
My question is this, do I keep it in text game, do I call? I would like to keep it in text game, because that's where its been, and texts are really a good tool.
If so, whats the next move?