So I've been flirting with this girl for around a year. I've always had a girlfriend. My girlfriend recently moved away, leaving the door wide open for this other chick.
She always displayed solid ioi's (Inviting me to her work place etc) I would always make some excuse for being there anyway "Funny you should invite me, I'm actually getting my mum a birthday gift during lunchtime. I'll pop in" etc etc
We've been texting for a few days, and she invited me to a bar with her. I said I'm rolling with some other friends and she should come with us. We didn't end up meeting but there was in no way hard feelings.
During the night I sent her one text (Saturday, 1 o clock in the morning) along the lines of "Ahh this club we're in. Reminds me of being 18 again. Cheap drinks and slutty forward Women! (I saw this as social proofing myself). I'm having fun but Maybe I should have gone to the piano bar with you!"
I received no answer. I sent a text the next day(Sunday:
"Hey how was Friday night? x"
Still no response. I know this girl has an on and off relationship, so I wonder if she is with this other guy and choosing not to text me back. We have been texting very consistently for the last few weeks or so, and have spoken on the phone a few times too recently. What do you guys think?
Slight Oneitis too.