So 6 months after a 7 year relationship and engagement plus many mediocre dates I had a great date with a great woman. So obviously confidence was shot after that relationship so I joined Eharmony I guess as a boost of ego and get my feet wet as an adult dater. Thats the back story

So this woman is 2 years older than me im 28, and on her profile she was so a 180 from any girl id even be interested in. My friends said dude stop being picky and go have fun.

So glad I did, I took her to an old horror night at a local spot in town and she suggested dinner. We sat and talked and had drinks for 2 hours before we ate, and even though appearance we were different intellectually we were so insync it was incredible. even in my 7 year relationship I didnt feel that intellectual connection. She toasted me and was smiling the whole time. When the bill came she pulled out her card to pay and thats when I put my hand over hers to discourage that and I felt the sparks on the touch... Been a really long time since I felt that. No biggie I hadnt had sex in 5 months I figured just chill lol no sex on first date. Even on the previous dates I hadnt even wanted to kiss or hold hands but her I was smitten. The movie place was up her alley with the kind of ppl she would normally socialize with, ( its actually something I do regularly ) so she saw me as not one of them but not an outcast I presume. Which in my eyes is great it kinda sets me apart. So during movie I put my arm around her, I didnt ask her if that was ok, but I did ask if it was bothering her, bc lets be honest shes tiny compared to me my arm probably weighed alot haha So ok still great chemistry not even one hiccup. Turned out we parked next to eachother lol and in the heat of moment ( not even awkwardness , it felt very comfortable ) I kissed her on lips. She pulled back saying oh no my breathe is coffee breathe. I smiled and said it doesnt matter pulled her in got a better kiss in and I pulled away to hug but she presumed we were still gonna make put I guess and her lips quickly gave me 2 more pecks. I didnt even think a make out session was in order bc dude its been a while, i dont even remembering making out with 7 year girl lol. But success right? So as she was getting in car she said ( im going on a trip for a week ) Have a good trip call me when you get back if you want.... I said for sure, asked her to text me she got home ok, bc she drove kinda far to meet me and it was really dark and its secluded roads. So she did with exclamation marks.. and stated im home. Now imo it could have ended there. the text also said you? So she was asking about me, i said just arrived. could of ended there right? She texted back , thank you , I had a great time and reiterated call me if you want when you get back... good or polite? So i texted back not wanting to leave her emotions hanging, assuming that was the case I said I cant wait till next time.

So today is the third day since, I texted her thinking of you and wanted to say hi.... Good? I mean I actually want to persue this girl, Im lost about this , I used to be the man hahah and with teh others I didnt care... But with her she has my thoughts around her smile hard core. Im not falling or love or anything after a first date how much could you possibly know, but I want to make it clear I like her and see where it could go, I know that much. Maybe its only date 2 hahah anyway no answer yet, but she works night shift and could be sleeping. Also previous texts shes the type to leave her cell and not attached to it, ( which is amazing in my eyes) so a few hours o even a day is normal but that was before we even met. now we met, had a great time and kinda feel my heart is out there, its scary and exciting but kinda down she hasnt responded....

I know im over analyzing it all, and I wanted to go with the flow and would have texted her yesterday probably hahah

So thoughts? Did the date go well or was she being polite? Her bringing up my trip and calling her after twice, coincidence? I guess Im still a little insecure but also that im not her typical type worries me...