This is a continuation from something I started in the text game thread. I tried to move the thread but dont know how. I tried to post a link to the thread but it wouldn't let me.
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Here's a quick run down and you can go back and find the first part in the how to text thread.
So, first off I'm in the middle of No contact from breaking up with my Ex. I have a thread in that forum. Thought you guys should know..
I heard through a mutual friend that this girl from college who I barely knew had mentioned me and I decided to facebook her. Shes cute and I am in a new city so why not? Plus it could help me get my minf off the ex. Anyways, things went pretty good and I met up with her at a bar friday night and then went to a concert with her on saturday night. These were all group hangouts but I spent alot of 1 on 1 time with her. Things were going great and I really did have a blast with her. On saturday after the concert she invited me back to her place to spend the night. It was clear she wanted me to sleep there.
So we get back and it's late already. Probably like 3 or 330 am. We were both drunk. We continued to hangout and talk. But I COULD NOT CLOSE! I don't know whats wrong with me, I just could not get my self to go in for the kiss. So we end up just going to bed. She passed out right away and I tried to wake her a few times. She was really knocked out. I did manage to get one kiss good night after I ASKED "let me get a good night kiss" OMG you have no idea how I cringe just knowing that I played it that wrong. Asking?! So WEAK! But I don't know what it was I usually don't have a problem closing the deal. It was like I was 16 again.
Anyways, I just decided to leave. I texted her phone saying "Had a great time tonight. Really like hangin out with you. I think I'm the awkward one" (she joked earlier in the night that she was awkward) In the morning she texted me "When did you leave?" and "Why" I just said "I guess I just felt awkward at the end."
I know I really messed this one up. Things were going great but I couldn't close and from then on it was me being super weak. We have texted and joked a little bit... But I don't want to text too much so I don't. Can I salvage this somehow? I need to make a move and soon. She's really cute, fun, all that stuff. Plus its been a total breath of fresh air coming off my break up. I like this girl and I'm not just using her to get over my ex.
I need some good advice guys. Please help me out.