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    Exclamation Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    This is a continuation from something I started in the text game thread. I tried to move the thread but dont know how. I tried to post a link to the thread but it wouldn't let me.

    [ADMIN: Here is the link: http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...k-texting.html ]

    Here's a quick run down and you can go back and find the first part in the how to text thread.

    So, first off I'm in the middle of No contact from breaking up with my Ex. I have a thread in that forum. Thought you guys should know..

    I heard through a mutual friend that this girl from college who I barely knew had mentioned me and I decided to facebook her. Shes cute and I am in a new city so why not? Plus it could help me get my minf off the ex. Anyways, things went pretty good and I met up with her at a bar friday night and then went to a concert with her on saturday night. These were all group hangouts but I spent alot of 1 on 1 time with her. Things were going great and I really did have a blast with her. On saturday after the concert she invited me back to her place to spend the night. It was clear she wanted me to sleep there.
    So we get back and it's late already. Probably like 3 or 330 am. We were both drunk. We continued to hangout and talk. But I COULD NOT CLOSE! I don't know whats wrong with me, I just could not get my self to go in for the kiss. So we end up just going to bed. She passed out right away and I tried to wake her a few times. She was really knocked out. I did manage to get one kiss good night after I ASKED "let me get a good night kiss" OMG you have no idea how I cringe just knowing that I played it that wrong. Asking?! So WEAK! But I don't know what it was I usually don't have a problem closing the deal. It was like I was 16 again.

    Anyways, I just decided to leave. I texted her phone saying "Had a great time tonight. Really like hangin out with you. I think I'm the awkward one" (she joked earlier in the night that she was awkward) In the morning she texted me "When did you leave?" and "Why" I just said "I guess I just felt awkward at the end."

    I know I really messed this one up. Things were going great but I couldn't close and from then on it was me being super weak. We have texted and joked a little bit... But I don't want to text too much so I don't. Can I salvage this somehow? I need to make a move and soon. She's really cute, fun, all that stuff. Plus its been a total breath of fresh air coming off my break up. I like this girl and I'm not just using her to get over my ex.

    I need some good advice guys. Please help me out.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    I guys i really could use some help...

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    Alright. I just decided I'm going to call her and tell her I got tickets to a game tomorrow night and I want her to go with me. It'll be a blast. I remember her saying she hates long texts which probably was a hint... So, im just gunna call.

    Not even gunna bring up the shit bout me bouncing out saturday night...Just try to have fun and forget about it.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    If she invited you back to her place you did everything right. Just don't pussy out next time or she'll think your not manly enough. You were pretty much in the ideal situation brotha you should smashed it.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    As Yolo said, you missed a good chance. You two seemed to be vibing and you could have closed. However, don't beat yourself up over it. If you two really were vibing, it won't be a big deal. Just call her up like you were planning to and don't bring up Saturday. If she does, just tell her that you were really tired and wanted to sleep in your own bed or something. Possibly tell her that maybe next time she'll be lucky and you'll stay the night.

    Bottom line - don't worry about it. Everyone messes up but if you just act like it was nothing, she will think the same. Just let it slide like it didn't happen and if she brings it up just push it aside and keep control of the frame.
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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    Called her and she's stoked about it. So am I (but not too stoked u know, haha) Anyways I'm gonna do my best tonight... I've read most of the tips... Kino ad all that. Does anyone else have any tips?

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    Just stay cool and calm. Even if you are excited, don't let it show. Be happy to see her, but make it seem like it's not too big a deal to be going out with a girl. Basically, relax and have a good time.

    At this point also I wouldn't really try gaming her. Just be yourself and be natural, don't be trying to run any routines on her. Based on what you've said, she's into you so you shouldn't have a problem closing.
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    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    Tonight we went out to the game. Had a great time. Convo was flowing. I just wasn't feeling a very good vibe romantically. This chick can be a bit of a "guys girl" if you know what I mean and I sure as hell don't want to be in the friend zone. When I dropped her off I just hugged her. I usually know when to go in for it and that wasn't the time. Im thinking that MAYBE she took what I did on saturday night as rejection. And me inviting her to a basketball game is just friends... NO FRIEND ZONE! Or it could just be a case of me bitching out saturday night turned her off and she just went to the game with me because I asked... I know girls are hard to read but I REEAAALLLY cant read her at all. To end on a brighter note - On the way home she asked me what I was doing this weekend and we talked about hanging out and doing something soon.

    Guys, I could use some good advice / techniques...
    Last edited by BlazerFan; 10-18-2012 at 03:59 AM. Reason: forgot something

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    Well, I'm not really sure where to take this to be honest. Getting out of the friend zone is not really my specialty. I'm rarely put there and when I am I just accept it. I'm not really sure of your situation, but maybe the FZ isn't too bad of a thing. It's always good to have girls to roll with. Also, even if you have been FZ'd, when she sees you hitting on other girls there will probably still be a pang of jealousy, which you can use to your advantage.
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    Default Re: Can I salvage this? HELP (continued from the how to text thread)

    I don't think I'm there. But i was just saying its a small possibility. Im gonna do some reading and figure out how to get the attraction back up to where it was saturday when she invited me to stay


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