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    Default Critique my text conversation with HB7

    Hey what's up fellas ? My mothers condominium got a cute new concierge who I struck up a talk with. She was pretty flirty and was asking me about my plans for the night and mentioned that she lives right by the bar I was heading to with my friends. So I invited her to come meet up and hang out. I don't normally do this but I gave her my number and told her to call/text me when she was off work. She texted me that night when she got off work and we've been going back forth for a few days. H

    I've been trying to treat her like a little sister poking fun and keeping a strong *frame, *switching conversation topics and never responding to her texts too quick. Let me know what *tips/ recommendations you have ?*

    HB7:Hey! It's *HB7from the ( her work) , are you still at blitz?

    Me: I left blitz, any more fire trucks or paramedics at the job tonight ? Lol

    HB7:Thank the heavens it was a quieter night afterwards! We ended up farther downtown anyways, so no worries!

    I decided to not respond to that text and picked up the next day.*

    Me: Hey there*

    HB7:Why hi there!*

    Me:So What ya doing ?*

    HB7: Just got back from the gym and running a bunch of errands! You?

    Me: Just ate some delicious coconut, almond butter, banana pancakes I made! texting you : ) and hanging with some buddies.
    *
    HB7:Haha nice so glad I met you yesterday! I finally have a day off so I've been lying low and getting things done a cant during the week!

    Me: I love having Sundays to lay low, but mine have been super busy lately! What gym do you go to ?*

    HB7:The one on *( her gyms address) *24 hour fitness! *Agreed its amazing to have a relaxing day!*

    HB7: What did you get your degree in from ( her college) *?*

    HB7: Geography! What about you at OSU?

    Me:Unofficially I majored in bar sociology with a minor in debauchery lol.*

    HB7:Haha well then I might add my minor was in procrastination, haha. So glad to be out of school! When did you graduate?

    Me:I graduated in 2009, You just graduated this last year right ?*

    HB7:Yes! Do you have any plans tonight?*

    Me: Your a youngin! I might be a little too old for you *: p *lol unfortunately I have a class I'm at until late!*

    HB7:I'm 23! Im an elderly woman. Haha. That's a bummer! What class is this?

    Me: Elderly by cavewoman standards maybe lol . My class is an instructor training program at my gym.*

    HB7:Hahaha very true. And what gym is this?!*

    Me: Hey what's your last name I can't have you in my phone as *HB7 name of work *lol

    HB7: Very true! It's ( her last name)
    I'm so happy you included your last name *

    ( I put my number and name in her phone for her )

    Me:I figured I'd make it easy on you... At least to start with!*

    HB7:Alright, alright. But I do handle difficult people well, working at the (work ) and all. You'd have to do much worse.

    Me: Sounds like a challenge*
    *: p What's the weirdest request you've had in your time there ?

    HB7:Haha I think they're going to get even weirder. A drunk woman called to claim a parrot was on her balcony. Clearly drunk, I didn't even check up on it.

    Me: Clearly she wasn't drunk, she was on acid or mushrooms lol Sunday's your only day off ?*

    HB7: Sunday and Monday! And I don't work until 3 Tuesday through Saturday so it's not so bad. I'm headed back from the bar now

    Me: No work tomorrow and you headed home from the bar at 11:30 *? I thought you were 23 not 43 lol what's your favorite drink ?*

    Hahaha. Don't judge me! I told you I'm elderly at times. Which compliments my gin and tonic appreciation. Always g&ts. Yourself?

    ( again I ended our conversation on this text )*

    The next day*


    Me: Haha gin and tonics remind me of my family reunions! Crazy Irish folk. My drink is tequila, club soda and lime.*

    HB7:Mmm I'm always skeptical of tequila, it's very dangerous if in excess amounts!*

    Me: Air , water and exercise can be deadly in excess amounts too : p *the key to anything is moderation... But yes tequila is a sneaky booze! Lol

    HB7: Haha you have a point! I feel rum falls under the same category as tequila. But everyone has their own experiences with sneaky alcohols! Who knows, the wine-o's of the world may say the same thing about Pinot noir

    Me: I love the sun but god damn it's good to have the rain back in Portland, I'm probably amongst a small group that feel that way! You have any favorite rainy day activities ?*

    HB7: I love the rain! But I'm a rare seattelite that owns an umbrella which I adore. And since its my day off a friend and I are pumpkin spice latte-ing and enjoying the warm inside! You?

    Me: I think everyone is partial to a stay in bed movie day when it's really rainy : ) but I like being out in the rain walking around or reading in coffee shops. People and their pumpkin coffee...

    HB7:Haha it's a recent addiction! Coffee shops fall on that list too! Pete's coffee is a block or two away from me and Starbucks are around every corner... You can't escape it!

    Me: Girls and their pumpkin coffee addictions I don't get it lol *Pete's coffee is my second favorite coffee! What are your plans tonight ?*

    HB7: And what's your first favorite? I'm not sure! I was thinking of laying low... What about you?*

    Me: stumptown *coffee, but peets is a real close second. *I'm busy until around 8:30 but after that I'm free
    *; *)*

    HB7:Haha nice! Well ill let you know if I'm up for something! And there's a stump town right by my house too!*

    Me: You live in coffee shop *Mecca lol I have to run some errands, but let me know when your interested in hanging out.*

    HB7:Of course! I may have overbooked myself plan wise but we could always grab coffee this week seeing as I live in coffee Mecca and you have such an appreciation for it!

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    Looks golden to me. But I'm for the most part just a newbie junior PUA. All I can say is be wary of the friendzone.

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    looks great. I would just try to throw in a little role play every now and then. they work great

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    Quote Originally Posted by solstice View Post
    looks great. I would just try to throw in a little role play every now and then. they work great

    Solstice what do you mean by role play ?

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    a role play is when the two of you pretend to be something you're not. it's telling a girl that you are breaking up with her, hiring her as your personal bodyguard or cheer leader, talking about going on an exotic vacation with her, telling her that she is your new girlfriend and then talking about all the exciting things you will do while your dating, or just telling her about certain things you will do when you hang out with her. she will usually play along with them. they work because they allow a woman to experience the same emotions that she would feel if these things were actually happening. you can also take these things very sexual if she is really attracted to you.

    this is one I did awhile ago about a breakup:
    this is part of our conversation
    her: Wow I think you might be the high one! you can't even type...
    me: Don't judge me...
    her: You are being judged so much right now
    me: this relationship won't work out. I can't be with someone who is going to judge me... I'm breaking up with you
    her: but but but
    me: I promise it hurts me more than it hurts you :'(
    her: Text message breakup?? Really??
    me: I wish it didn't have to be this was, but you never come visit me!
    her You never tell me your whereabouts!
    me: If you really loved me like you said you did, then you would have found me.
    her: This is not my fault! Now I am eating cocoa pebbles and ice cream. do you see what you have done to me?!?
    me: I remember the night we ate cocoa pebbles and ice cream together :'(
    her: It was our favorite food D':
    me: I miss you
    her: Do you regret breaking up with me?
    me: I thought you broke up with me?
    her: you are sadly mistaken
    me: well what did I do that for?
    her: because I was judging you...
    me: oh ya... I want to have my cds back
    and then it just goes on from there and i eventually talk about asking her to come over one more night, and she asks me to come over and eat ice cream and cocoa pebbles with her, and I tell her that if she actually is eating that stuff then I will come over, and I ended up going to her room later that night. I had only been around this girl twice bc she is recently joined my social circle. She gave me her number on the fb messenger bc we were making plans to hang out with our friends, and this is part of the conversations that took place that day.

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    well done sir. you have it down to a science.

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    That looks like a great technique to use. I was joking with the girl later in the conversation and used something like that but she didn't respond very well.

    Me: You would : p omg I saw the funniest thing on my way to work today!**if we don't hang out soon then I'm going to start cheating on you haha*

    Her: Cheating?? And where do you work??

    Me: I'm like a plastic surgeon for houses, I make them look good on the outside... But they can still be crap on the inside.*

    Where should I have taken the cheating role play ?

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    Nice interaction there!
    I was thinking you were going to get stuck in the 'job-interview" style rapport questions for a minute..... (The whole school / majoring thing)

    But there was enough FUN light humor peppered in with everything, so it kept everything from getting stale.

    Also- Great job leading the conversation topics & making the transitions!!

    She was quite "chatty" with her texts, so replying back with equally long messages was perfect! It kept her engaged in the interaction & you were actually able to draw even more out of her.

    (That's good because it gets her investing in you; which is going to build up the attraction.)

    It appears you've gotten the comfort & trust from her, so try being a little flirtier now. Turn up the temperature one notch & see how she responds. (I'm thinking it'll be positively)




    I gotta give you props!
    I've had lots of convos that had the same vibe to them; and knowing how to get a girl to use her thumbs & commit to longer replies is always good.



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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    Where should I have taken the cheating role play ?

    I would have said "yep. you aren't giving me what I need right now."
    I think she responded just fine

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    Default Re: Critique my text conversation with HB7

    T-mal thanks man but unfortunately I messed up along the way and the girl is freezing me out!! She stopped answering texts. Not sure how to re engage the conversation or if I even should since she's freezing me out.


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