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    Default Text convo eval.

    So here's my text convo with the HB7 from my FR.
    Waited till today to start it up.

    ME: you just popped into my head so I figure I'd say hi...Now stay outta there!

    HB: Haha! It's not my fault lol

    Me: Of course it is!
    So what's my 4th favorite pool partner doin?

    HB: 4th favorite!? I'm just getting my car fixed

    Me:Well we haven't played enough for you to be higher!
    What's wrong with your car?

    HB:Yeah this is true. My steering wheel was vibrating and they said that my wheel was bent.

    Me: Driving over small chidren and such will do that
    I bet you have a japanese car

    HB: Haha I def don't do that. My car is a nissan

    Me: Well if it's not fixed and you're really nice maybe I'll come pick you up for this weekend.

    HB: This weekend? (we didn't actually make any plans)

    Me:It's the last weekend to get pumpkin beer. So beer and hotdogs up here, or did you forget?

    HB:I guess I forgot
    HB:lol

    Me: Either that or your raging alcoholism made it so you didn't remember :P
    But now you're sober and reminded so no excuses!

    HB: Haha I don't remember much of this past weekend!

    ME:Well don't worry
    All those pictures are safe with me!

    HB: haha you're funny!

    And that's as far as it went. Tried to keep it fun, flirty, and short.
    Every time she texted me I waited at least 2x as long to text her back too. Thinking about killing the convo here and picking it up tomorrow.

    Anyway feedback, and advice appreciated!

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    Default Re: Text convo eval.

    Great interaction...
    But don't always wait to text back.
    (It will become predictable & predictability is an attraction killer!!!)

    Mix up the amount of time you take to reply.
    Sometimes right away, which is great for building rapid fire attraction/rapport... & other times wait a little while.

    Also- don't force the same conversation to continue all the time.
    Change it up too.

    Especially after it's been going on for several interactions.

    Keep the subjects fresh, switch up your response time & you'll be golden.



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    Default Re: Text convo eval.

    Thanks,

    yeah I fired a few more, and cut it off for now.

    Me: Like you didn't already know that
    And I definitely need you to do me a favor

    HB: What is it?

    Me: You have to stop making wishes.
    You got your first two, you only get one more
    But hold off a while, it might just kill me!

    HB: What wishes? I'm so confused lol

    Me:haha
    You wanted me to talk more and I did, now I don't have much of a voice
    You wanted me to quit smoking, and I probably will cause I smoked way way too much! (got bronchitis, but didn't tell her that)

    Her: It's hard for ppl to quit smoking lol

    Me: That's true
    But I'm pretty stubborn!
    I'll probably be down thursday so you can check on my progress

    HB: Why Thursday?

    Me: Why not?
    Not much going on till then and I have a final and final project I need to work on.

    HB: Ohh gotcha

    ME: Speaking of which I need to get back to that
    You're such a distraction, but in a good way

    HB: haha good to know

    Here's where I decided to cut it off (obviously).

    I was reading GnG's guide and trying to pick up hooks for later. And I definitely think there's more then a few in there that I can go back to. But didn't want to keep texting tonight.

    I was trying to change it up, I thought it was flowing pretty well. I didn't really think I was staying on one subject too long. I'll try to keep my texts unpredictable.
    Last edited by medic2038; 10-16-2012 at 05:16 PM. Reason: adding stuff

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    Default Re: Text convo eval.

    her responses were 2 or three words at the end, and yours were way more at the end. all of your txts are great by themselves, but it is just way too much when you use them all together like that. to me, it seems like she would think it was incredibly random a little bit strange. I used to do that, and I got a lot better when I relaxed and stuck with one thing for awhile and then switched to something else. I had all kinds of ways to reply to each txt and I always tried to combine 2 of them, which seemed weird. just relax and stop changing the subject so much


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