Called her on Tuesday and set up a date on Friday. She accepted. We've been seeing each other three months irregularly followed with a one month break in between. She had some valid life stuff during that time like moving out of ex-bf and other heavy stuff. After that during last two weeks I've seen her three times and spent a night on a last date.
Now she sends a message saying sorry but would Thursday or Saturday be good instead. She "has" to go to a local club on Friday. I'm 90% certain she's going with her friend to see a certain performance. Whatever, we're not exclusive.
What's the take on this. She flakes but counter offers. I do have plans on both days until like 8-9pm or so. Should I pull back here? Obviously she is putting her friend before me. My first instinct was just to reply in the morning that sorry, but I've got other plans.
I've read a lot here about flaking but didn't really find anything with a counter offer. Should I let this slide and contact her at the beginning of the week or just make her to chase me?