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Thread: Out Of The Blue (text from HB9)

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    Default Out Of The Blue (text from HB9)

    My first ever post - woo!

    Received a very keen message today out of the blue from a HB9 I used to date. She asked if I'm going to be around any time soon because she wants to hang out and do a bunch of fun stuff. She has also just recently broken up with her boyfriend.

    My reply was short and simple, saying that I'm often around and that I had a few days off work so now is a good time to hang out.

    Received no reply after eight hours.

    A bit curious....

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: Out Of The Blue (text from HB9)

    Leave for at least 24 hours. Maybe then arrange to do something with your mates and invite her along OR if she does get back in touch with you then tell her you are busy doing something (even if you are not) but that you are free later.

    However I am a bit of a noob so you might want to canvas some other people's opinions

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    Default Re: Out Of The Blue (text from HB9)

    I agree with rfjammer. Make plans, if she texts you back, say you already have something to do but she can tag along. This is a subtle neg, coupled with a dhv (you have a life, which is fun, and she's not a part of it, but you are offering the PRIVILEGE of enjoying it). But yeah, don't text her back. I wouldn't even put a 24-hour time limit on it - if she's going to text you back, she will. If she's not planning on it, you texting her more will not change her mind. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, she's probably looking for a rebound fark... in which case, leave the opportunity open but don't act like you particularly want it to happen. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Out Of The Blue (text from HB9)

    Quote Originally Posted by Tom Selleck View Post
    I agree with rfjammer. Make plans, if she texts you back, say you already have something to do but she can tag along. This is a subtle neg, coupled with a dhv (you have a life, which is fun, and she's not a part of it, but you are offering the PRIVILEGE of enjoying it). But yeah, don't text her back. I wouldn't even put a 24-hour time limit on it - if she's going to text you back, she will. If she's not planning on it, you texting her more will not change her mind. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, she's probably looking for a rebound fark... in which case, leave the opportunity open but don't act like you particularly want it to happen. Good luck!
    i agree with all that but what if its one of them one of moments where shes receiving many texts and misses one, its know to happen. , keep us updated on what happens anyway

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    Default Re: Out Of The Blue (text from HB9)

    Had a great response. It's gone well, almost too well.

    Luckily it was my best friends birthday party this weekend so that was a great opportunity to casually invite her along and even suggested bringing friends. Text her 24 hours after first message, Got a fast reply, seems mega keen, lots of messages saying how she wants to go, lots of messages after saying how she can't wait, lots of 'x's in every message, seems a bit over the top, but it's cool. Playing a good text game, need to pull of a good 'in person' game now. Just gonna roll with it, will post more if I get stuck at any awkward moments!

    Thanks all for the help.


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