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    CueKay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How should I ask for phone #

    Have been messaging this chick on okcupid since yesterday or maybe the day before. we have only exchanged like 6 messages total between the two of us but she is asking questions that show she is really interested in me and I wanna ask for her number but I dont wanna do it too soon and scare her off. this is our conversation, keep in mind her prof was NOT informative and only had a face picture

    Yesterdays messages
    Me: Very informative profile... And nice work on the photo, at least you didn't feebly attempt to edit your ex outta the picture like mine =P

    Her: Haha you are great with Microsoft paint (or whatever state of the art technology you used for the editing out of said ex)!

    About my profile, yes, you know truly know my life story. That, or I just wanted to get it over with. Like ripping off a band aid!

    So how's your week going?

    Nice to meet you. I'm Jessica

    Me: Yes clearly I am a master of the digital arts. I'm even capable of drawing smiley faces with characters on my keyboard!!

    It's very nice to meet you Jessica, I'm XXXXX but you can call me X. And my week is going great! Just enjoying the night a bit more before I turn in (its past my bed time XD)

    How about you?

    Her: Hahaha to the master of digital arts comment. Also, I demand that you get an honorary doctorate from an Ivy League school for your smiley face skills. Just sayin'.

    Well X it is. Hi!

    It is quite late and I'm looking forward to sleep as well. Oh yeah.

    Enjoy your zzz's and hopefully we can continue this convo when we're both well rested

    Todays messages
    Me: Well you know I double majored simultansously at Harvard and Princeton in both Emoticons and Swag. So don't be surprised if you find yourself swoon by my charming smile/s ;D. Do those ivy-league credentials meet the Jessica-Standard of approval =) ?

    Her: Haha. All ill say is I'm quite impressed!

    How's the day going?

    Me: Pretty darn good so far! I got out of work early, made to it to the gym, got a good sweat, and I'm about to eat back all the calories I burned earlier XD.

    What are your plans looking like for the evening? Let me guess, existing in New York City =P

    Her: Haha, I like your sense of humor.

    Gym as well for me After that I went to Barnes and noble to read a couple of thingsl.

    Walking home now to shower, make some din-din (food) and get ready for tomorrow (make/pack my lunch, clothes ready, etc).

    Then just going to relaxxxxx

    So, yes, existing. Just like you!



    Should I ask for her number now or just keep the friendly messaging going?? Advice would be appreciated

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    Default Re: How should I ask for phone #

    You are doing way too much work on what I can see. Just my opinion. Dont put so much effort and just flow with it. This is just an observation.

    Now, if she is the only you are talking to then you are not gonna like what Imma say. Slide in a small joke and ask for the number saying either 1- this site is lame. Lets text. 2- lets trade numbers. If you get it or dont shouldt matter if you talking to many. In other words if you care f you get the digits then you'll be affraid to ask. If you dont care it will naturly come out when yiu ask. Make sense????
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    "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.

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    CueKay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How should I ask for phone #

    Damn, you're right... Even if I really want to get a girl I should at least fool myself into not caring too much so I won't be awkward or fumble on anything. Thanks Ride

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    Default Re: How should I ask for phone #

    With online you should def not care dude. They are all there ready to get hit on. You just do it the right way and there are many threads on this. Then you'll have options which in turn help you not care as much.
    To my bros who served with me.
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