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Thread: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

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    Default What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    So, I'm trying to learn how to handle different objections and I've been reading a lot of the archives of this particular subforum but one I didn't see covered is what to do if a girl tries to make you qualify yourself to her. For example, let's say you open with the "Beauty is common" opener and she qualifies herself and then asks what do I have to offer? What's the best way to reply to that?

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    Default Re: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    First, if she's still qualifying you while you're qualifying her then you either didn't build enough attraction in "A2" or you've started disqualifying/screening/qualifying her too early - or both.

    Second, I'd say treat it as a sh1t test, and (my personal style) open a Jealousy Plotline.

    HB: "So, what do you have to offer?"
    PUA: "Offer? Me? Nothing. I'm more of a taker - very high maintinance, here, hold my drink for a second, *to her friend, tap her on the shoulder with one hand, touch her arm with the other* I didn't catch your name."
    Pawn: "Cassandra"
    PUA: "Do you go by Cassandra or Cassie?"
    HB: "Cassandra"
    PUA: *taking back your drink from your target* "So you like to be more formal Cassandra, is that is? I don't blame you, there's a lot of creepers in her tonight, just a minute ago I saw this kid... [creeper across the room routine - or whatever, stack to any routine that is pretty short and will get her laughing, then neg the target] ...and he was just standing there after she took the drink from him! Can you believe it, *to the target* you'd like him though, he seems like your type.
    HB: "Why is that?"
    PUA: "Seems like he'd have more to offer you than I would" *cheeky grin*

    Or somethin like that lol
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    Default Re: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    What about in online game though, like on OKCupid or something?

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    Default Re: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    First off, I love that interaction, and secondly, pretty Much the same thing but don't ask her to hold your cup or she might get confused
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    Default Re: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    I dunno about online game, all my sarging has been IRL.

    I'm guessing maybe qualify yourself in a cocky/funny sort of way??? But again, I'm speaking from zero experience on it here, just what I imagine might work
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    Default Re: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    Sounds good to me. I ended up adding "Think of a Ferrari".

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    Default Re: What If She Tries To Make You Qualify Yourself To Her?

    I like the suggestion of introducing jealousy but using another gal to do that is not always an option if you are one on one with a gal.

    One technique I recommend is giving her the answers but not immediately.

    Think of when your mother inquires about something you did & you give her the short.
    Her: how was your vacation
    You: Amazing

    To you that's an adequate answer but recall, women want details always so she'll pry for more information.

    This conversation is boring to women:
    Her: So what do you do?
    Man: I'm an accountant
    Her: Ok.

    This could be the same conversation done more interestingly.
    Her: So what do you do?
    Man: Huh? Sorry I was distracted by your eyes. Stop looking super sexy while I'm trying to talk to you damnit! Anyway, what was your question again? (compliment but reenforces the stereotype that men don't listen, are distracted by sex etc)

    If she likes this she may not even repeat the boring what do you do question but if she does then:

    Her: Haha, I'll try (cocky smirk) I was asking what you do?
    Man: I make sure peoples' money is doing what they want it to do.
    Her: (if shes interested) Oh yeah? How do you do that?

    etc.

    This turns her simple question into a longer more interesting conversation where you reveal the details but in a manner in which both of you are participating, she's working to unveil the answers and therefore feels she has earned that information instead of yoy just "handing it over". Small details like this can turn a few questions by her into a longer more interesting convo that she will remember instead of just:

    Her: What do you do?
    Man: I'm an accountant.
    Her: Cool. Good talk. Later!

    Also, with really cocky women that have heard it all before, blatantly ignoring her question & replying with something else can be very effective or being unattentive or distracted slightly by something in your environment can give you a slight edge.

    Women love to not be able to *easily* boss you around, but doing things she asks of you to me is Ok as long as you dont do it too easily or you appear pussywhipped before you have even gotten any pussy.

    An example I could share of one of my buddies who is married but the dude is a pretty big asshole generally, he was having a boxing PPV at his house & a bunch of huge dudes, mostly former bouncers & steelyard workers were there.

    His wife said,"**** will you come here (to the kitchen) for a sec and take this trash out?"

    He replied very firmly,"No, I'm watching the boxing match" & kept doing so. After a few minutes he did comply, after the round was over, but it was more like after HE was ready, not just when SHE said so.

    She still gets what she wants, but without the lame "Yes Dear.. can I have my balls back?"

    So it's OK to reply to women's qualifications. Teaching qualification to men is essentially teaching men to do what women teach each other all the time.

    If you COMPLETELY avoid all questions, usually people who do that have sh1t to hide and it's always better to have honesty & not give a fark about the outcome than to be a liar. Lying will always backfire eventually. This is more like simply delaying your answers & making her pry out the info so she feels you're a challenge.

    Jealousy angles can work and you also dont need a second woman around to use them, but I look at those tactics as last resorts and playing hardball for more challenging women. Essentially, you dont need them if you dont need them.

    Also, in reference to the getting her to hold your drink. It's a good move and women who would ask you to hold her purse would definitely think its sly.Just don't do it for long, just long enough to show her the message that you have the cock, you will be calling the shots.


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