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Thread: Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

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    Default Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

    I met this girl while visiting a friend out of town. We met at a day club where I felt like she was giving me a few ioi's, hell she even invited me and my friends back to her place to chill in the jacuzzi. She mentioned that no swim shorts or bathing suits were required. Let me mention that a few of my buddies went to college with her, so we weren't all complete strangers.

    I did mention to one of my friends that I wasn't too into girls that were too forward like that, but we went anyways cause my guy friends wanted to have some fun, cheers to them.

    We arrived at her place where we proceed to get even more shit faced. I pass out and in the middle of the night walk in her room and pass out in her bed without even knowing. She was never came to bed and ended up sleeping outside. She did later mention to me that she was considering jumping into bed with me but didn't know what type of guy I was. We joke about this, but all in all she just thinks it was really funny. Next morning, I realize this girl is not the same straight forward girl from yesterday, she was a very nice genuine girl and I liked that.

    Fast forward, we text back and forth and I'm real playful with her but she always tells me that I'm just a flirt and she doesnt takes me seriously. She lives about 4 hours away so it's no big deal to me if I don't call or text her. Normally she's pretty cold, but sometimes she'll hit me up, but not as often as I do. I'll text her like, "have a nice week" or things like that from time to time to show that I don't always have that flirt game on. Other than that I try to go cold on her too.

    I drunk dialed her last weekend and mentioned that I had an extra spot in my room at Vegas for halloween and she said that she was considering going, but none of her friends wanted to go. Today, I wake up and get a text from her askin if I still have room cause she's trying to convince a GF to go.

    I'm sure I have more vested in this girl than she to me, but if she does end up going, I'm wondering how I should play it. I have alot of friends going, so I can really use that to dhv myself, such as talk to many girls and guys and really show my confident self. But should I take this chance to freeze her out or give her attention?


    TLR...

    Met this girl. first she was IOI'ing, we txt back and forth. I don't think shes attracted as much anymore. told her to come to vegas i have extra room. if she does come, how should i calibrate myself, try to dhv? Freeze Out? give her attention? act like how i was the first time we met? My objective is to have fun on the trip, but I'm trying to score points with this chicka too.

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    Default Re: Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

    If she goes to Vegas she'll probably be going as a friend (friendzone) but this doens't mean nothing is going to stay in Vegas... you know, because what happens in Vegas... stays in... lo... moving on

    Firstly, at the very least you can use her and her gf as preselection for when you walk into a club and immediately start gaming other girls

    Secondly, she can act as preselection for you to game her gf (if she's hotter) and possibly fark the friend

    Thirdly, by gaming other girls in Vegas (including but not limited to her friend)

    And ideally, you game her friend first, then her once she starts chasing you, increase the jealousy and end up in bed with them both at the same time.

    Remember two things: (1) every girl you game is simultaneously a potential target, Jealousy Plotline for other targets, and preselection for other targets (2) what happens in Vegas baby stays there
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    Default Re: Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

    Autismus stole my post! Da mn u! This. Aint. OVER. One day lol... one day!

    But anyway... good experience. My hope is that u learn how to game her FROM THE BEGINNING. For instance... right off the bat, getting drunk wasnt a great idea. When she said you were a flirt, you caved in and turned nice. You failed a pretty obvious test. You should have escalated the response. Since she lives like 4 hrs away, she coulda been looking for a hookup (vacation mentality).

    But like Autismus said... u can use this in a positive way to show OTHER girls your value
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    Default Re: Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

    Whenever a girl has called me a flirt, or a tease, or a player etc... here's how I've handled it.

    I look her right in the eye & say with a devilish smile, "Ohhh sweetie, you have NO idea....." & then wink at her & walk away.

    The combination of affirming what she said & giving her negative body language, has a HUGE emotional & psychological effect!

    So, if that ever comes up again (which it probably will) give that a try & see what kind of results you have!


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    Default Re: Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

    Hey thanks for the input guys. Sounds like I've been sent to the friend zone. If thats the case I'll just use this opportunity to treat her like a little sister and just tease her, while working on game with other girls. Maybe it will confirm her thoughts of me being a player or being too flirtatious, but who cares right...? Just having fun is my main concern, or so I've gotten from the responses.

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    Default Re: Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas?!

    For anyone still interested in giving me advice, I just made an update thread to this one. Unfortunately I can't link it since I'm under 150, but it is located under dating advice labeled Update, Weekend in Vegas.

    Or I think you can scroll down to the bottom on this thread and you'll see it under my recent posts. Thanks for any of your help!!


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