I met this girl while visiting a friend out of town. We met at a day club where I felt like she was giving me a few ioi's, hell she even invited me and my friends back to her place to chill in the jacuzzi. She mentioned that no swim shorts or bathing suits were required. Let me mention that a few of my buddies went to college with her, so we weren't all complete strangers.
I did mention to one of my friends that I wasn't too into girls that were too forward like that, but we went anyways cause my guy friends wanted to have some fun, cheers to them.
We arrived at her place where we proceed to get even more shit faced. I pass out and in the middle of the night walk in her room and pass out in her bed without even knowing. She was never came to bed and ended up sleeping outside. She did later mention to me that she was considering jumping into bed with me but didn't know what type of guy I was. We joke about this, but all in all she just thinks it was really funny. Next morning, I realize this girl is not the same straight forward girl from yesterday, she was a very nice genuine girl and I liked that.
Fast forward, we text back and forth and I'm real playful with her but she always tells me that I'm just a flirt and she doesnt takes me seriously. She lives about 4 hours away so it's no big deal to me if I don't call or text her. Normally she's pretty cold, but sometimes she'll hit me up, but not as often as I do. I'll text her like, "have a nice week" or things like that from time to time to show that I don't always have that flirt game on. Other than that I try to go cold on her too.
I drunk dialed her last weekend and mentioned that I had an extra spot in my room at Vegas for halloween and she said that she was considering going, but none of her friends wanted to go. Today, I wake up and get a text from her askin if I still have room cause she's trying to convince a GF to go.
I'm sure I have more vested in this girl than she to me, but if she does end up going, I'm wondering how I should play it. I have alot of friends going, so I can really use that to dhv myself, such as talk to many girls and guys and really show my confident self. But should I take this chance to freeze her out or give her attention?
Met this girl. first she was IOI'ing, we txt back and forth. I don't think shes attracted as much anymore. told her to come to vegas i have extra room. if she does come, how should i calibrate myself, try to dhv? Freeze Out? give her attention? act like how i was the first time we met? My objective is to have fun on the trip, but I'm trying to score points with this chicka too.