First, thank you to all those out there who help the 'lost and confused' like me. I'm 31, recently divorced and last time I was on the market was over 11 years ago. Things have changed, and here I am trying online dating.
I seem to get a lot of profile views (over 200 on Match in 2 months and can't tell on POF)... a lot of them coming after an initial email, but then, no response. This makes me think my emails are not terrible, but my profile and/or pictures are. Only other thing I can think of is that I have kids and is probably a deal breaker for a lot of women. I tried switching it to 'I prefer not to answer' on POF, but lets face it, I might as well check 'Yes'.
Any advice at all would be awesome. I have been tweaking over time from tips here there from this site and my results have not improved a whole lot.
My POF profile is my testing ground before I update on Match... here is what I have for now: