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    Default here tests? how to respond

    Me: My canned opener
    Hey,
    I just came across your profile and you peeked my interest. I know right, you've been waiting for it! You can call everyone, let them know. Tell your friends about it. Ok so perhaps I like to be a bit goofy too. But tell me what do you like to do for fun.

    Her:hahaha you got jokes

    Me:haha i got alot more then that, i dunno if your ready for that though you never told me what you do for fun. that has to mean your some ole boring cat lady er something lol.

    Her:yup you caught me

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    Default Re: sh1t test? how to respond

    Hey, before I give you the advice I want to clarify that I am relatively new to PUA. Even though I am rather successful in what I do, I am by all means not a master.

    I like using PoF to try new things so I think I can give you some advice.

    First of all to your issue, after that I will give you some advice for future messages.

    The only relatively good message I can come up with is stating your own opinion and then ask a question back to get her to start talking. What about: I am not really a cat man, definitely more into dogs, trustworthy and loyal, cats ain't my thing. (Let's hope she is not into cats)

    The tough thing is that I think you already screwed up and the first 2-3 messages are the key to her. Making a great impression is so important.

    Let's start with your first message. I personally don't think that your first message is a good conversation Starter. Yes you try to be witty and funny, but it also gives you the look of a nerd or similar and not the portrait of an AMOG.

    Especially in getting the attention from HB8+, you want to have a sense of humor but don't want to make yourself look stupid. Your starter is a rather hit & miss for that one.

    Now your second message:
    haha i got alot more then that, i dunno if your ready for that though
    - Sounds a little bit creepy and on the other hand it makes you look like a joker again, you do not want to give her that impression. (Making jokes, yes. Being a joke - no.)
    you never told me what you do for fun.
    - You just sent her one message before, and you never asked her before. Do you understand where I am going with this? The question seems really random, not confident, more like you look helplessly for a topic to talk about.

    Please do not take my post as bashing but rather as giving you my opinion and some advice. You sure can disagree with me and that is fine, everyone has somewhat his own style in game.

    I tried a couple of Opening Messages from this Forum and tried them out on POF.

    ME:
    Hey, I know you must be getting tons of "hey,wassup" each day, especially from guys who give their phone number real fast and also from old perverts, lol.. however,you look simply adorable that I had to say hi...

    HER:
    Why thank you and yea I do.. But a lot I don't reply to ..

    ME:
    But still you decided to reply to mine, how so?

    HER:
    Hahahahaha, I guess hey, you don't seem like a pervert? Are you?.. Ha

    ME:
    I can't give away all my secrets right away, can I?

    Number Closed on this one the next day.

    Another one from this forum:
    ME:
    hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day.

    HER:
    I do have a job yes. But it all depends on the type of video games you play!

    ME:
    What about you tell me about your type.


    HER:
    Haha I love retro games. Like Super Nintendo! So if it's what you play. I'm afraid id be there playing with you!

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    Default Re: sh1t test? how to respond

    Quote Originally Posted by gh0stfac3 View Post
    Me: My canned opener
    Hey,
    I just came across your profile and you peeked my interest. I know right, you've been waiting for it! You can call everyone, let them know. Tell your friends about it. Ok so perhaps I like to be a bit goofy too. But tell me what do you like to do for fun.

    Her:hahaha you got jokes

    Me:haha i got alot more then that, i dunno if your ready for that though you never told me what you do for fun. that has to mean your some ole boring cat lady er something lol.

    Her:yup you caught me
    That's not a shit test but she's braking your frame i suggest u neg then stack forward something like it's cool that u know u are boring, are you very cool? or very weird? u know what don't answer i'll be the judge of that then dhv story
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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