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    Default Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    Basically, i've been on and off with this girl for 2 years. 2 monthes ago we decided to get back together. now i saw her texting alot thru out this movie. at the end of movie i saw that it wassome guy shes been texting. i kinda got jealous, but she told me hes just a friend. Later on he texted her again and she wouldnt let me see what he was saying. Her excuse was that she didnt like being accused of stuff.... So fellow ppl out there, plz help me! i ended up leaving passively angry:

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    I'd say dump her or get over it and give her some trust, otherwise she will cheat.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    She's got a right to her privacy,but if she needs to use it it is withdrawn, thats kinda my rule. I wont tell you what to do, but if I were you I wouldn't even ask what she's hiding, the fact that she's got something to hide is enough for me to break it off, its your relationship not mine tho
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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    Agreed, But you're not going to listen to us and i know this, So atleast Just Give her the space, and that will higher your value
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    Nobody ever does hahaha nail on the head tyrone
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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    Thanks for the advice guys. Anytime Ive asked for it on here its worked out for me. Ill play it cool and act like it doesnt faze me. maybe its nothing, maybe its something. Side note, she was with some dirtbag who stole money from me for 4 years before i stole her away, (thanks neil sttrauss)

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    i reakon stick to the pua principles, have an abundance of women until you have found the one. dont settle for one, she isn't in a way. so have alot of chick friends. when she asked, just say " I want to show you, and will, but remember this isn't fair that you're accusing me"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    Thats what you get for being on and off for 2 years. Its all or nothing otherwise there is no commitment or trust. And she dated a guy who stole from you. Maybe thats who she is texting. Plan for the worst. Treasure the best.

    Just like with your buddies, chose your friends carefully.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    I think there's 2 versions to this scenario, well 2 courses of action that could be taken. Firstly, you could do the silence, tell her that you wanted your relationship to be open & honest, and for each other to be trusting and you feel sad that she isn't sharing with you, especially if it's barbed insults that she's receiving. Tell her that the closeness you two had in those previous 2 years made you realise and appreciate that close connection. That she can tell you whatever it is & you'll listen. Tell her all that in a calm voice, try not to react to whatever she says.

    If she accuses you of not trusting her, tell her that you do trust each other but that you can see that it is something that has affected her. Tell her that as her guy you want to be the one that she turns to, to confide in and that by each of you doing that you can improve your lives together.

    That way it's more likely that she spills and you get to deal with reality, not paranoia.

    Up to you how you react & no doubt others on here will look at what I said with disdain. The above is my advice though and geared to hopefully providing more openness between you. If there is someone else, she may be lost to you already. If there's not, you are admittedly making an issue of the situation but in the best way that I can think of. I don't think going silent on her will resolve anything. I think that's merely keeping the problem away until next time. Laying low, letting her know by silence there's an issue but not tackling it.

    Act as you feel right, my words are only an expression of what I, perhaps wrongly, feel is the path to take forward. Listen more to the experienced PUAs on here who will have stronger answers framed to create a better response and lastly, good luck with whatever course of action you choose to take.

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    Default Re: Girlfriend of 2 monthes texting some guy

    Dont claim her as a girlfriend, it seems like she's looking for something better while she's with you . so consider her more like a friend with benefits for now and game on other chicks
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