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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    @KingKongV - Hahaha! Thanks brotha!!

    Anyway, I DID find the email with the "descriptive scenario" I mentioned....
    so, here it is. (I'll also give you her reply to this email)

    The night was perfect.
    The moon shone brightly in the sky above them, along with a blanket of stars, filling in the blackened canvas of the night.

    They walked to the balcony of the private cabin in the mountains.

    The hot tub was bubbling, and the steam rose up as he guided her up the steps & helped her relax in the warmth of the water.
    With her head back she looked at the stars, completely mesmerized by their twinkling beauty.

    He joined her moments later, bringing a glass of champagne to toast their evening.
    As she sipped, the bubbles danced on her tongue; tickling her mouth in a serenade of sorts.

    His gaze was fixed upon her.
    He noticed the way her wet, shining, glistening skin reflected the moonlight with water droplets slowly rolling down her naked body.

    As he leaned in closer, a smile crept up on his face. She looked radiant; absolutely beautiful in this perfect setting.
    He slowly placed his lips on hers & they shared a soft kiss. Her lips were smooth & moist; nothing could compare to them.

    As they were still embraced, he slid his hand up the back of her neck & pulled her even closer; his fingers had taken hold of her hair & he pulled it back firmly, yet with gentleness.

    Her heart began beating faster as she felt a surge of warmth & energy rising in her stomach. The anticipation of what was yet to come had totally engulfed her.

    She knew without a doubt, he would be in control tonight; and she would happily & willingly submit to his desires.
    Tonight was their night.

    The sexual Tension was thick, and she knew this would be the most passionate night of her life.



    So.... what was her response??

    "NAILED IT. OK, if you could take ONE guess and one guess only as to what made me say, “OHH”, when I read this…. What would your guess be?
    (If you guess correctly I’ll answer any question you ask of me.)"



    So, do YOU GUYS know what part of this "story" made her say "Ohh!"? (I absolutely knew what it was... so I DID get to ask her anything I wanted!)



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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Well girls have a crazy mind.... sometimes it's hard to know what they are thinking.

    But....

    I would guess the part which you say "he would be in control tonight"

    And then, what you asked her??? (if it is appropriate to post here...laughs)

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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by aggawam View Post
    Well girls have a crazy mind.... sometimes it's hard to know what they are thinking.

    But....

    I would guess the part which you say "he would be in control tonight"

    And then, what you asked her??? (if it is appropriate to post here...laughs)
    Nope... that's actually not the part.


    Although she did mention that it was kind of the "icing on the cake" so to speak.



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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    So earlier you guys said thay the texts i sent actually wernt that bad.

    But then that leaves me wondering, why the hell didnt she respond at all after that, she seemed to be getting into it at first..? I know it could be anything, she was busy for example, but to me that says shes thinkjng now "what a weirdo" lol. So i want to know the best way to proceed..? Whats gonna give me the best chance of re engaging her positivly?

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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    @KingKongV - Hahaha! Thanks brotha!!

    Anyway, I DID find the email with the "descriptive scenario" I mentioned....
    so, here it is. (I'll also give you her reply to this email)

    The night was perfect.
    The moon shone brightly in the sky above them, along with a blanket of stars, filling in the blackened canvas of the night.

    They walked to the balcony of the private cabin in the mountains.

    The hot tub was bubbling, and the steam rose up as he guided her up the steps & helped her relax in the warmth of the water.
    With her head back she looked at the stars, completely mesmerized by their twinkling beauty.

    He joined her moments later, bringing a glass of champagne to toast their evening.
    As she sipped, the bubbles danced on her tongue; tickling her mouth in a serenade of sorts.

    His gaze was fixed upon her.
    He noticed the way her wet, shining, glistening skin reflected the moonlight with water droplets slowly rolling down her naked body.

    As he leaned in closer, a smile crept up on his face. She looked radiant; absolutely beautiful in this perfect setting.
    He slowly placed his lips on hers & they shared a soft kiss. Her lips were smooth & moist; nothing could compare to them.

    As they were still embraced, he slid his hand up the back of her neck & pulled her even closer; his fingers had taken hold of her hair & he pulled it back firmly, yet with gentleness.

    Her heart began beating faster as she felt a surge of warmth & energy rising in her stomach. The anticipation of what was yet to come had totally engulfed her.

    She knew without a doubt, he would be in control tonight; and she would happily & willingly submit to his desires.
    Tonight was their night.

    The sexual Tension was thick, and she knew this would be the most passionate night of her life.



    So.... what was her response??

    "NAILED IT. OK, if you could take ONE guess and one guess only as to what made me say, “OHH”, when I read this…. What would your guess be?
    (If you guess correctly I’ll answer any question you ask of me.)"



    So, do YOU GUYS know what part of this "story" made her say "Ohh!"? (I absolutely knew what it was... so I DID get to ask her anything I wanted!)


    I would have to guess the "hair pulling" part, or secondarily the surge of warmth and energy part..?

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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    It's possible she had a little bit of LMR, or maybe got a tad embarrassed.... (Or even some other actual legit circumstance / situation)
    Kinda hard to say for sure.

    But if she doesn't reply back within 2 days or so, I'd just hit her with a totally platonic (but still fun) text, just to check in with her.

    Like I said, don't bring up the "sexy / sensual" covo you had... let it go & move on.

    Treat the new day as a fresh one, & start from scratch; just like you do every day with co-workers & friends when you see them. (There are always brand new topics of discussion each day).

    Usually the best ones in a situation like this, are the kind that don't ask her any questions or necessitate a reply at all. Simply make a general statement, like it's a thought you had.
    (Think of it like a Facebook or Twitter status update).

    You're stating something, just to make the statement... but people generally reply because they want to; not because they were "required" or "requested" to do so.
    (If that makes sense??)



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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Rando9009 View Post
    I would have to guess the "hair pulling" part, or secondarily the surge of warmth and energy part..?
    BINGO!!!!


    That was the part that hooked her!

    he slid his hand up the back of her neck & pulled her even closer; his fingers had taken hold of her hair & he pulled it back firmly, yet with gentleness.

    Every girl I dated/hooked-up with during the first couple months after my divorce, LOVED the "hand on the back of the neck, with slight hair-pulling" when being kissed!

    It's an amazing seduction technique! Most girls have extremely sensitive nerve endings on the neck.

    So when you kiss her along the side of her neck right below the ear & work downward towards her shoulder, chances are she's going to get goose bumps as the arousal process gets a jolt!



    *Give it a shot!!


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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Can I ask for clarification? My english still need some improvements.... I still get confused with some words.

    When you say "pulled her even closer".... you are pulling her towards you, right?

    But when you say "pulled it [hair] back firmly", you mean away from you??? Towards you??? Or downwards???

    I usually grab her hair firmly, but just imobilizing, not pushing or pulling.

    And those parts are really connected: the holding of the hair and the taking control part.

    T-Mal, what was the question you did to her?

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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    You betcha!

    Pulled her closer = towards (the first part of the kiss)

    & Pulled her hair back, = Downward (a moment later, as to increase the arousal as the kissing becomes more passionate.)

    That's what was being implied.


    And exactly... the mention of "being in control" definitely ties in with the dominant attribute of the hair pulling.

    What question did I ask her?

    It was:

    OK,
    Out of the 2 choices below, which is more appealing as far a "fantasy" scenario goes?

    A.- Old-Fashioned - Romantic scenario such as: dinner / dancing / rose petals in the tub & on the bed / massage... etc.?

    OR

    B. - The more "erotic" type - similar to the little creative writing scenario I sent you?


    (Her answer) B. -It was the simplicity of the whole. It’s more organic…..if that makes any sense.

    So there ya go!
    What a girl wants & likes.... the inside scoop FROM a girl.


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