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    Default sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Guys, so I've been texting back and forth with this girl I met online for awhile now. Its always been flirty, she initiates over 75% of the time, and sometimes turns slightly sexual, however she flaked on our first attempt to meet.

    Tonight we were texting, since she was working, I joked that I'd pick her up, and we were going to vegas to get married. She played along and laughed, and I followed with " make sure you bring the pink thong..". She seemed to be loving it, so I upped it a notch saying " its gonna get crazy, id tell you what ill do to you, but your in a public place.."

    She said back "ya, but nobody else is reading my phone " ... so to me it was on. I said "ok, but make sure you keep your hands above waist level" and she loved it and laughed. Then send her 3 really sensual texts in a row explaining what im going to do to her. Im usually pretty good at putting these texts together, and am confident these were well worded to turn her on. However....

    She went SILENT and hasnt responded. Its not the biggest of deal I guess, just practice, but i feel a little weird leaving it like that..

    Any way to recover from this? Another text (not sexual) or dont say anything else?

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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    I would keep quite for a day or 2, then text her again. Make sure you have enough built enough rapport/Comfort.

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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Mind Tricks View Post
    I would keep quite for a day or 2, then text her again. Make sure you have enough built enough rapport/Comfort.
    Good call, ya i have not texted anything else since. Thinking about something tomorrow joking like " i know my texts were pretty good, but ya didnt have to pass out on me last night " but idk. Just something to break the awkward silence after that. Or would it do more damage?

    Guess i could just go silent myself now for awhile as well. Only thing that sucks is i was planning on getting her to come out for some drinks tomorrow night.

    But overall i think that i shouldve just got to a certain point and then stopped before the real sexual stuff....considering she was at work. Leave her hanging. I went to far

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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    No don't even mention that, delete that old conversation and start fresh, act like nothing ever happened.

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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    screw that, i want to know what you wrote to her first? then i'll offer my advice.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    screw that, i want to know what you wrote to her first? then i'll offer my advice.
    your right, we need to know what you said, no1 will ever see it here, so then our advise is yours

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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    Mind Tricks nailed it!
    That's exactly the answer I was going to give.

    Anytime you send a text & get a "not so positive" response (or no response at all, just lay low until a day or two goes by, then re-initiate with something completely new & fresh.

    Don't mention the last "questionable" text you sent, but rather, act like it never happened. (It's like the same way to handle a Sh1t Test... let it go & act like it never happened & remain unfazed.)

    Now, if SHE brings it up then you can pick it back up & keep rolling with it, if it's in a positive way.
    And if she mentions it negatively, then all you have to do is laugh it off & just admit you went a little overboard, then immediately shift the focus to a new topic.

    "LOL! Yeah, I got a little carried away with that... My bad!! OH hey, did you see that XXXX last night?"

    Something to that effect works like a charm.



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    Default Re: sexting fail! need advice

    Ok, just for reference and example I'll post what I sent her.

    M: id tell you what im going to do to you but your in a public place..
    H: ya, but nobody else ks reading my phone..
    M: your right, but keep your hands above waist level theN
    h: LMFAO im sure you wont turn me on that much
    M: hmm you sure about that?
    H: yea
    m: well if you were here right now, lets just say I would not kiss you lightly on the cheek. (Guns n glorys line)
    M:i definatly would move to your neck, and slowly start tracing my way down towards your breasts...
    m: and as you clench my back, i can feel you shivering between ticklish and waves of pleasure....as i work my tongue around your hard nipples, and slowly suck each one

    Now thats kind of a private convo to post... but there ya go. Critique, advice, and how to proceed with this girl?!

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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    I don't think it was anything too crazy or outlandish...

    It MAY have had a bit of an arousing effect on her & she got a little flustered... LOL!

    The descriptive words like "shivering" "ticklish" & "waves of pleasure" are brilliant!
    Girls eat that stuff up!

    I've written a few "sexy/sensual" texts & emails describing a particular scenario myself. And when you paint the mental picture with descriptive words like that, it allows her imagination to take over... which can have glorious results!


    I'll have to dig through my email folder & see if I can find one specific little goodie that I sent to a girl... She wrote back & told me I should write "Literotica" stories!!
    LOL!!



    If I can find it, I'll post it on the forums so Y'all can get an idea of the style of writing that's extremely effective.


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    Default Re: sexting fail with girl I met online, need advice

    Every time I read T-Mal's posts, it's like singing angel's in my ears! Hahaha!


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