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    Default Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    So some background, dating this girl exclusively (as far as she knows) for a year. Im good looking and have always had natural game and have refined it with help. Now my boy here is extremely good looking. We both have success, but him more so.

    So he recently moved back to town and I must admit, my AMOG radar was rusty. I hadn't been challenged with my girl out in public and especially in my social circle for quite some time. So we pregamed with some friends at my house and he was driving to our next destination, another friends place. We walked out and said I had to sit in the back. I said bs girl in the back, and she started complaining that she had black on and would get dog hair on her. He agreed and I went to the back without realizing I just got AMOGGED completely.

    When we got to my friends place I sat down to chat with my friends. There was nowhere for my gf to sit next to me so she sat on the couch across the room. My AMOG "friend" sits next to her and puts his arm around her. I ignore it for a bit until I was done catching up, then walked over, took his arm off her, said get up, and sat down next to my chick, but the damage was done.

    A few days later she started asking questions like, "do you trust your (AMOG) friend" and saying this like "I like your friend, he seems like a really good guy." ****ing facepalm

    Obviously she is attracted. Honestly, the relationship is at its tail end anyways for other reasons, but I need to diffuse this clown so I don't get AMOGGED by him in other pursuits. He's that kind of guy. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    It's simple...you have to neuter him in front of her. With an axe. There is no other way.

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    I would hardly call an a-hole like that a friend. I agree, he must be neutered. In every situation you can, especially in front of your girlfriend. You must AMOG him.

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    Quote Originally Posted by HiDef View Post
    I would hardly call an a-hole like that a friend. I agree, he must be neutered. In every situation you can, especially in front of your girlfriend. You must AMOG him.
    That was actually my original thought but I'm coming down right now so I had to say something funny. Like, why be friends with someone who's a dick to you like that? Then I thought about some of the people that for better or for worse, I voluntarily surround myself with and I understood.

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    I hope you don't mean literally urbancowboy lol.

    Sucks about your situation man. First off...pick your battles. Starting off the night by stating "girls sit in back" may sound alpha, but is actually on the childish side. Alphas know WHEN to take the lead, and the answer is not ALWAYS. It's still alpha to LET someone else take the lead under your permission. Again...pick your battles, because it is 100% impossible to have your way all the time. How you handle it when it doesn't go your way defines if you are alpha or beta.

    Even though I say this, I have been a victim of similar situations. The first instinct is some desperate attempt to get the power back and makes you look AFC. Once I learned to let go of always having to be in charge, I felt a little better. Still....he sat next to your girl and put his arm around her. Total cockblock.

    The simple answer is that he does not see you as the leader of the group. I can tell you if he did, he would fear your response if he acted in a way you didn't like. Honestly, I don't have much experience in having an alpha male see me as more alpha than him if he already sees me as inferior. It's usually because they are from my past and we already have a certain dynamic.

    You need to have a sit down with him. Seriously. Tell him that his behavior is unacceptable. Don't try to convince him. Simply state your expectations. If he doesn't agree or continues his behavior, you have to cut him off. It's that simple. This is why there is only one male lion in a pride. He doesn't try to subdue the males to get under his rule, he simply kicks them out for good. I've done it before because I don't have time to butt heads with someone that doesn't respect me from the door.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    1. he is not your mate (more so a dog)
    2. next time if there's no seats for your gf to sit next to you, she sits on your lap
    and just to clarify, she sat in the front and you got shoved in the back?

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    @Batman, yes of course I mean a metaphorical axe. Otherwise that would make me an accessory to the crime if he actually goes through with it lol.

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    Dating this girl exclusively (as far as she knows) for a year.

    If you actually mean what you are implying as opposed to being a keyboard jockey alpha, d*ck move. You call yourself a natural? Naturals don't have to be dishonest with women. Don't play, PUA. There's a difference. Being dishonest is a sh*tty thing to do, and doing sh*tty things makes you a sh*tty person. Don't be a sh*tty person.

    Starting off the night by stating "girls sit in back" may sound alpha, but is actually on the childish side. Alphas know WHEN to take the lead, and the answer is not ALWAYS. It's still alpha to LET someone else take the lead under your permission. Again...pick your battles, because it is 100% impossible to have your way all the time. How you handle it when it doesn't go your way defines if you are alpha or beta.

    The simple answer is that he does not see you as the leader of the group. I can tell you if he did, he would fear your response if he acted in a way you didn't like.

    ^That's some compact words of wisdom. Read it and re-read it until it starts to sink in, then read it again. Keep reminding yourself. True words. True words.

    My advice? Drop them both. He's a sh*tty "friend" and she's a sh*tty girl. A friend wouldn't do that and your girl should be loyal. So stand up and brush the dirt off your shoulders.
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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    Lol relax killer. What I do in and out of my relationship is my business, noble knight of the internet. I assume you are a Mr. Niceguy, aka a beta.

    1st point. She is loyal, but I saw some signs that signal attraction. She actually hasn't done anything and to be honest, I doubt she would. Only problem is we have other issues and the relationship is at its tail end anyways.


    2nd point. Yeah, good advice guys. I do believe he doesn't see me as the leader or he is trying to come in and take the reigns of the social circle. I think with a little "battle choosing" this will pass purely on the dynamic of the group. He is one of those try hards that easily annoys people in the group, but yet still a valuable member to many in the group at the same time. It's a complicated, large, social group and dynamic. Simply "dropping" him is not in the cards.

    3rd point. I didn't pick the girls in the back "battle," in fact I conceited.But by looking back that conceit is what gave the AMOG the confidence to sit next to my girl and put his arm around her and made me less dominant in her eyes.

    Thanks for the advice.

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    Default Re: Friend ****ing AMOGGED me, now my gf talks about him.

    Did you seriously just say that Cody is beta? Click his name check his posts and don't piss on people giving you solid advice. Seriously :L

    Linking x


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