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    Default when can i see her again?

    Hey guys! So i dated this girl last Oct 17, Wednesday. It was smooth though i failed to pull the trigger even though she's giving me massive IOIs. So, before we part ways i ask her when can i see her again and she told me she'll text me. I know it was stupid to ask her without having a plan. This is our convo after that night.

    Oct 18
    Her: Good morning! How was your night with your friends?
    9:03am

    Me: Good morning! Hope you slept well! Nah, i wasn't able to go with them. Wanna know why?
    9:08am

    Her: Why? Sorry late reply.
    12:03pm

    Me: It's simple, i just wasn't in the mood anymore when we part ways last night. Anyway, it's already lunch time. Eat well!
    12:12pm

    Her: Ayt. Okay, you should also eat now. XP Haha~ I am challenged by you XD
    12:13pm

    Me: In what way am i challenging you? Haha. Then, i'll be happy to give you reward.
    12:20pm

    Her: Haha~ Nothing. XP
    12:20pm

    Me: You're really cute, in a really weird-strange way. =))
    12:22pm

    Her: Hahaha~ okay.
    12:23pm

    Me: I think i'll set myself to find out what that is. Hahaha.
    12:25pm

    Her: Go for it.
    12:25pm

    Me: Do you think, a dog and a cat would get along?
    12:32pm

    Her: Maybe? Xp
    12:34pm

    Me: That's one of your beauty, you're not sure about your answers. =))
    12:36pm

    Her: Lol. What makes it good?
    12:40

    Me: Well, i am forced to get your opinion and the reason behind your answer. You just piqued my curiosity!
    12:42

    Her: aaaa. haha~ wait, im going to eat now okay?
    12:43pm

    Me: Go, eat till you drop! Hahaha.

    (Then she didn't text back)

    Me: Good night!
    10:56pm

    This is where i got cut off.

    I wanna know when is the best time to send her a text message for us to meet up again and a good text opener. And do please point out my mistakes or whatever seems too plain or out of the game.

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    Default Re: when can i see her again?

    There were a couple good spots there, but for the most part you're bordering on "Fluff-talk".

    Here are the highlights:
    You're really cute, in a really weird-strange way. =))
    -Complimentary, but with a playful neg. (& props for using the neg correctly & NOT going overboard!)

    You just piqued my curiosity!
    -Great hook! This is also complimentary, and is going to make HER more curious & intrigued because, she's gonna want to know why she piqued your curiosity. (*Piqued is great word to use by the way!!)

    i wasn't able to go with them. Wanna know why?

    -Again, great bait & hook... this is like a cliff-hanger & it compels her to respond... girls just have to know stuff!!

    So you're definitely on the right track.

    However; instead of lingering on regular chit-chat type stuff, (daily routines etc...) spice it up a bit.

    She seems to be quite playful & receptive... Not to mention, willing to engage the convo & keep it going.
    AND... She's giving you lots hints to flirt with her.
    (Telling you she's challenged by you & being a little bit playfully "feisty" by telling you to eat).

    I always start every day as a new one, so I'll drop the previous convo & initiate a whole new topic, just to keep everything fresh & interesting.

    Some good first texts of the day that I've used are:

    "Cock-a-doodle-doooo!! Rise & shine little camper, it's a gorgeous morning. Can't wait to see your smiling face."

    "Good morning little cuddle bug, you were the 1st thought in my mind when I woke up. Thank you for making me smile!"

    "What's kickin, baby chicken? I was just thinking about ya..."

    "OK, so there was either a Grizzly Bear in my mirror this morning, or I just really look like HELL when I wake up! Hope your morning was better. "

    "There may or may not be a briefcase full of money in my trunk... what do you think the odds are? ;o) "

    "I swear the waitress had a mustache when I went to lunch today!! Yosemite Sam would be sooooo jealous!!"

    "Hey chicken little, it's lunchtime. FOOD CHECK! Send me a pic of what you're eating."

    "Hey Chowder-head, I saw you peeking in my window last night... The Pirate costume didn't fool me! "


    These are fun, flirty & semi-random messages that will pretty much make her smile & laugh; Which means she'll be having fun, so they flip her attraction switches.

    And when you go to set the meet up, follow the guideline & style that I listed in the "Texting Do's & Don'ts" thread..

    So, a couple examples of how to ask a girl out would be:

    "Craving pizza! Roll with me this Fri @ 8:13! you'll love their hand-tossed crust!"

    "Hey mamacita, margaritas Sat nite. Come to my place & we'll roll @ 7:27 ! Adios mi amiga!"

    "Sushi time... tomorrow 6:06 PM. The Yellowfin roll is to die for! "


    Still playful & flirty.. But it also shows you have a plan & conveys an Alpha quality.

    But this girl sounds like she's already interested, so it's like putting the icing on the cake now.



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    Default Re: when can i see her again?

    @T-Mal
    Thanks for the fast reply man, i really appreciate it! I'm starting to understand the text game now! I really like your openers and the way you set a date! I totally love the pizza one, in fact im going to try this on her! Hahaha.

    Btw, what do you think of this text opener "Hey kitty cat! I just suddenly thought of you, so i wanna say HI! Now get out!" I actually saw this opener in other thread and i just added one of your nickname.

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    Default Re: when can i see her again?

    That's actually a pretty good one.
    But it's probably better suited for a girl you've been seeing for a while, rather than one you just recently met.

    The same thing with my first two examples. (Cuddlebug & cock-a-doodle-doo)

    Using those too early might make her feel a little weird, or make you look a bit needy... LOL!

    But you'll quickly learn what types to use during different stages of the relationship, as you keep practicing & gaining experience.

    Don't be afraid to experiment... and don't be afraid to push the limits a little bit either. Being a little bold is MUCH better than being timid.



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    Default Re: when can i see her again?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That's actually a pretty good one.
    But it's probably better suited for a girl you've been seeing for a while, rather than one you just recently met.

    The same thing with my first two examples. (Cuddlebug & cock-a-doodle-doo)

    Using those too early might make her feel a little weird, or make you look a bit needy... LOL!

    But you'll quickly learn what types to use during different stages of the relationship, as you keep practicing & gaining experience.

    Don't be afraid to experiment... and don't be afraid to push the limits a little bit either. Being a little bold is MUCH better than being timid.

    Okay... i texted her my "i suddenly thought of you" in the morning and it's night time now, she didn't reply. Here's my plan, i'm going to Freeze Out till Monday and use the Pizza text to go out with her on Tuesday. And if i don't hear from her or she can't see me, i'll Roll Off and move on. I know she's seeing other guys 'coz she told me when we went out and i don't know if i'm on advantage or disadvantage.



    I think im suffering from one-itis... And it sucks.


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