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    Default Reattempt a failed Conversation

    Hey,

    I am doing really good in in-person game; however, I still seem to struggle sometimes with the texting part. I finally started getting better since I started to study all this.

    Even though new conversations work really well, there is 2-3 girls from a week or two back which I kind of messed up. We had great conversations but I guess I never really build up any interest. Had a lot of Rapid messages back and forth about stuff we like and dislike and then Texts got less and less. Never made it to the hang out part.

    I learned now that I should not always reply and I learned better ways to build up Emotional Effects; what I am not too sure about is, how do I get back into the game with someone I did fail to have game before?

    I tried cliffhanger texts with HB9, but it seemed to work only for a while. She might be not a prime example for she is, (excuse me) "A girl who gets around, a lot". The only reason I want to keep talking to her is to improve my game. I think if I am able to make her want me over all the guys she gets with, I'm close to mastering.

    Any advice on how I can get it started again are greatly appreciated. Let's try these two girls.
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    Default Re: Reattempt a failed Conversation

    Remember that we can't control women, just influence them. There is no guarantee you can "bring them back from the dead." I've seen this with my female friends and ones I've casually dated and were open with me.

    They go through rutts. She may have someone on her sights at the moment and NO amount of game will shake that tunnel vision. Only if the guy does something she thinks is dumb and is willing to walk away will she start looking for another suitor. It even happens with me. Sometimes I'm so interested in a woman that any new or old women that come into my life just can't distract me from the one I am most interested in. And some of them have clever game lol.

    The solution: Text them for about once a week for a month with a non-expectant text. Treat them like your FB wall and share something interesting in your day.

    After a month, increase it to every two weeks. After two months you should just disappear and cut your losses. Seriously though, I've had ones contact me after several months after I've already deleted their numbers. Sometimes we won't reconnect for a couple of years.
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    Default Re: Reattempt a failed Conversation

    That's somewhat the answer I expected. That's fine though. Just teaches me that I better not screw up next time.

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    Default Re: Reattempt a failed Conversation

    Don't be so hard on yourself. I still screw up. You know how I recover? By NOT trying to recover. Lol. I let people know with my personality, "Yea I can screw up. Get over it." Learn and master frame control and you will be fine.
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    Default Re: Reattempt a failed Conversation

    So I ended up not texting them for a day or so, and then sent a random text today. Got game on with both of them again.

    Here a shout out to T-Mals' texting guide which improved some aspects of my Text game. I love that odd time one. Got Date set up with both tomorrow/day after tomorrow.

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    Default Re: Reattempt a failed Conversation

    Batman this is some good stuff. I like how you use your past experiences and even your current to get your point across.

    Wow, so okay normally I just totally write a girl off if the energy fizzles out or they dont return text. But I admire your perseverance. Based on what you said is it worth the pursuit?


    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Remember that we can't control women, just influence them. There is no guarantee you can "bring them back from the dead." I've seen this with my female friends and ones I've casually dated and were open with me.

    They go through rutts. She may have someone on her sights at the moment and NO amount of game will shake that tunnel vision. Only if the guy does something she thinks is dumb and is willing to walk away will she start looking for another suitor. It even happens with me. Sometimes I'm so interested in a woman that any new or old women that come into my life just can't distract me from the one I am most interested in. And some of them have clever game lol.

    The solution: Text them for about once a week for a month with a non-expectant text. Treat them like your FB wall and share something interesting in your day.

    After a month, increase it to every two weeks. After two months you should just disappear and cut your losses. Seriously though, I've had ones contact me after several months after I've already deleted their numbers. Sometimes we won't reconnect for a couple of years.
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