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    Default How long to wait when re-messaging girls on dating sites

    How long should you wait before messaging women on dating sites again? I'll make it a bit clearer by adding that these are women that you've group messaged, with possibly same line, but didn't SE a reply from.

    My profile used to be rubbish, I've started to improve it. I know I've been set aside by women who would be happy to have me. I'm a good looking guy & really it's them that should be doing the running bar old style chivalry which sees us guys having to do the running. I can accept that but my confidence is strong to know that in spite of women getting streams of messages I'm the one that most of them are really looking for, the prize for their online search.

    So how long should I wait? Tempted to message a good number today, give them the promotional slip which offers them the chance to get to know me. Must be at least a couple weeks, more with many since I last messaged them, is that long enough?

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    Default Re: How long to wait when re-messaging girls on dating sites

    I see this is a little bit dated but I'll give you some ideas from my experience.

    I honestly feel that with all the creeps out there, it can get pretty easy to get responses if your game gets even moderately good. If your profile or pictures aren't appealing though, they may pass over you.

    Unfortunately, I don't think this looks good to you. Women need a way to filter 500 messages and your message might have triggered that response somehow. Instead of wondering when to resume your chase for the same girls, try to be dynamic with your responses to new ones. Pick a women you genuinely are interested in and write something unique to her. Don't worry if you fail, reference the forum and try and improve for next time. If that fails a few times, rewrite your profile with new found knowledge and change your pictures.

    I really don't think newbie PUAs (like me) should message lots of women with general copy and paste responses, you don't learn anything and you've shot yourself in the foot for talking to them ever again. Some sites have a history and show your previous messages, causing them to roll their eyes and pass once again.

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    Default Re: How long to wait when re-messaging girls on dating sites

    women won't be attracted much with only a good picture.. no you have to give them respect by reading their profiles actually and constructing personal messages for each!!!


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