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Thread: When is preferably the right time to not text the girl or let her wait?

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    Default When is preferably the right time to not text the girl or let her wait?

    I've heard that you always change things up like sometimes you rapid fire text her, then suddenly stop and let her wait for a couple of hours. But when is the right time to let her wait for my text? Is it when we develop a common interest and then I suddenly drop her off or when we start to have fun then let her wait to let her crave for more or something. I really think that there is a right time to let her hang. Opinions please?

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    Default Re: When is preferably the right time to not text the girl or let her wait?

    Hey,
    I used to have the exact same issue. I was one of those guys who looked at their phone every minute and replied messages instantly without noticing how it actually hurt my game.

    First of all if you are one of those guys then change your mind set. Everything is more important than texting pretty much. Answer sometimes quick, sometimes after 30 minutes or so. If you have something to do, do that first.

    Now if you have a rapid fire text wait for a moment where she says something "risky", something which could either go both ways or a situation where she tells something deep about herself. Or simply a (controversy) opinion.
    This will make her think about the last text she said a lot, and if you are lucky she is even going to double or triple text, which is pretty much an indicator that you got her on the hook.

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    Default Re: When is preferably the right time to not text the girl or let her wait?

    I done this beautifully the other day.

    "Hi I just noticed your new facebook profile picture. Thats like your third one in two days! Are you going for a record!"

    "Hahaaaa Well do you like it?"

    "I do. You have a really hot look in your eyes. Your eyes arn't your best feature though"

    "Thanks - whats my best feature?"

    "I have to pick my Mac up. I will text you later"

    "Omg you can't leave it there! tell me what my best feature is!"
    "Tell meeeeeeeeeee!"
    "Hey did you get your laptop? x"

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    Default Re: When is preferably the right time to not text the girl or let her wait?

    valentineover gave a GREAT example of setting the hook & leaving her hanging for a bit! Talk about creating curiosity & attraction!!...


    And aRsen's advice is spot on too!!!

    The best way to go about texting & figuring out the length of time, is to just be unpredictable.

    I'll go into rapid fire mode for 20-30 minutes sometimes... it just depends on what I'm doing & have going on. If it's convenient, no problem.

    Especially if the interaction is going well & I'm escalating during the process.
    That's the biggest thing there... if you're just making small talk, don't spend a lot of time in rapid fire mode.

    Maybe a minute or two, & then leave a couple minutes between other texts.
    But if the flirting is happening & you're able to get on a sexual topic, then stick with it for a while!

    Keep ramping it up & get her aroused!!! (Because there's nothing better than a first date that you KNOW is going to end up with night time physical activities!!!)



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