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    minislim82 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default pof - meet me option. what's a good message?

    hi guys need a bit of advice, ive got lucky on pof and had people use that "meet me" option on pof so get the email " xx wants to meet you" whats my next move should i email them? and if so whats a good message to send?

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    Default Re: pof "meet me"?

    Hey bro, ya I get some of those 'meet me' emails too, even though 9 times out of 10, the girl is uggo ha.

    But think of it as in the sense that she is chasing you. Even though it probably doesn't matter much to her, since everybody skims thru profiles on there quite a bit id say.

    Anyways just check her out and if ur interested, just send a short mesg. To acknowledge hers. Most girls reply with very little info, so mimmick that. I've been sending messages that way lately and it works, like saying 'hey ur cute I'm busy tho so hi' - don't say that though lol.

    Just say hi. Or notice something in her profile, or a common interest, and mention it. Keep it short and sweet man.
    Basically your replying with receipt of her msg lol, if she replies back then u can get the ball rollin.

    Hope that helps cheers

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    Default Re: pof "meet me"?

    There's two routes to go here...

    1) bust her, with something like "if you want to meet me your gonna have to talk to me first ; p"

    2) I used a standard approach. She said she hated Justin Beiber on her profile so I wrote " shame about you hate the Beibster, we could have a had something special"

    number-close and f-close followed soon after.

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    Default Re: pof "meet me"?

    I have lots of experience with POF.

    The "meet me" feature is cool because it's no longer a cold approach. The girl clicked the "meet me" button, so the interest is already there.

    Try somehing along these lines:

    "Hey Chicken little, you don't have to be shy.... it really is OK if you message me. BUT, now that I've done the hard part, it's a cake-walk for you from this point. I hope your day oozes with awesomeness."

    That's NOT the type of message she'll be used to getting, so it'll stand out AND make her smile. Plus, the flirty tease about being shy will start pushing her emotional attraction buttons.



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    Default Re: pof "meet me"?

    Thanks T-Mal, used the Chicken little opener and got the following reply:
    "Lol sorry! I am shy! My day has been filled with awesomeness and the night is to only get better! How was yours??"

    I'm new to POF and she doesn't have a profile pic. Thoughts on a reply and how to ask for pictures?

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    MaxWitts is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: pof "meet me"?

    Thanks T-Mal, used the Chicken little opener and got the following reply:
    "Lol sorry! I am shy! My day has been filled with awesomeness and the night is to only get better! How was yours??"

    I'm new to POF and she doesn't have a profile pic. Thoughts on a reply and how to ask for pictures?


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