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Thread: Shes back together with her boyfriend

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    Default Shes back together with her boyfriend

    The girl I wanted hanging out with texted me she got back together with her ex boyfriend. But I think shes interested in me.
    What should I do?

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    Default Re: Shes back together with her boyfriend

    Then it's time to deploy the BF Destroyer! dhv as much as you can and most importantly don't put pressure on her or you risk scaring her off. People love to feel safe so they stick with what they know so you have to build some more comfort/rapport.

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    Default Re: Shes back together with her boyfriend

    After BF destroyers
    Me: hmm, it must be a big accomplishment for u
    her: Accomplishment? Weve been breaking up and getting together for 3 years...never mind
    Me: Wait, youre 22..so, youre with him since 19?
    her: How did you know my age? I dont remember I told you....yes since 19
    Me: I drove the center...omg, these are the best years of your life, u can do anything crazy and dont care. How could you it to yourself?
    her: Probably Im fool, but I like him...so much...I should let him alone, I always say to myself...and Im with him again...and then I cant get a coffee with you
    Me: I respect your decision...sometimes were afraid of being alone and we rather stay in relationship. In begining there is a passion, and later we dont know where the thing are going.

    After last message she didnt text me back.
    What am I supposed to do? What was wrong?

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    Default Re: Shes back together with her boyfriend

    After BF destroyers
    Did u use mine?
    Me: I drove the center...omg, these are the best years of your life, u can do anything crazy and dont care. How could you it to yourself?
    -U lost the frame here.
    -u seemed like a stalker why do u know her info
    her: Probably Im fool, but I like him...so much...I should let him alone, I always say to myself...and Im with him again...and then I cant get a coffee with you
    -u gave her The Vibe of a date and not as a friend thing
    -u should have said maybe it's cuz u feel like u can't truly have him
    Me: I respect your decision...sometimes were afraid of being alone and we rather stay in relationship. In begining there is a passion
    -NICE!
    and later we dont know where the thing are going.
    -Not nice, u're making him seem like a badboy which is attractive to women

    Overall i think u haven't really grasped the concept of the bfd.

    Freeze her out for a bit then start a normal convo with her build good rapport and then go for it again
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Shes back together with her boyfriend

    Thank you
    Yes,I used yours.
    I will wait a couple of days a then text her some funny stuff?

    rapport is built on the comfort, isnt it?

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    Default Re: Shes back together with her boyfriend

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    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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