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    Cool pick-up is a numbers game

    i can't stress enough how this is a numbers game, the pua's who approach the most girls have the most success. just like tela-marketers, we have to be persistant, they know that the more calls they make, the more sales they will get. it doesn't matter how many times they fail, eventualy someone will bite on their offer the more girls we talk to the more likely we are to get a number from someone, and the more numbers we get, the more likely it is that we willl get a date from one of them you can't get too stuck on any one girl, (or at least not until you have an LTR) because, when you only focus on flirting with that one girl all your eggs are in one basket, if she rejects you then your just out so we need to game every girl we meet, even if its just for practice flirting ultimately you need to make it your point to learn from every interaction so that even though you made enevetible mistakes you can identify them and fix them for the next go-round.

    YOU WILL GET REJECTED!! wheather you like it or not, it is a necisary proccess for learning pua, the only way to effectively calibrate your game is to use it! when you get rejected, figure out what you did wrong and fixt it!
    when i get rejected i always try to remember that pua is a numbers game
    my favorite phrase for this is "rejection is the key to sexual prosperity" i tell it to myself every time i get rejected and move on to the next set

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    Ive been told this but I am scared people will think of me a sleaze for approaching so many and I will be looked down upon as the guy who has to ask 1,000 to get 1 good reponse. The dishonor and embarrassment is too much. If you think otherwise maybe you havent tried it or you are approaching so super indirect no one notices which is near impossible unless all your game is night-party game and in those cases you don't have to do anything anyways but show up and the social scene will do the rest. I feel like I have gained a bit of a bad reputation here at my school

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    I agree with meteora that pick-up is a numbers game.

    Most times, when you see someone who seems to be a master PUA and gets girls left and right, what you're not seeing are the numerous attempts behind him (you are only seeing the successes). The truth is, the more girls you talk to, the greater the chance of someone 'biting' (as meteora puts it).

    Worse to worst, you get some practice out of it which makes you better for next time.

    At the same time, I do see where @peel is coming from with the whole reputation thing. And I think the happy medium is knowing what kind of pick-up to go for in what scenario.

    In a club scenario, your pick-up game is going to be much more intense and sexually charged. But in your social gathering or school scenario, tone it down a bit! You can run your game without supercharging it. Sure, maybe you'll be known as a 'flirt', but that's not as bad as being thought of as a desperate perv.

    Moderation is key.

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    Pick up isn't about numbers. Why ?

    Pick up for some is self development, for others its fun, for others its a need. For me its an art because it can bring so much out of so little, its so fun meeting new people and so on.

    But about the numbers, I'd get a number, meet the girl first (either invite her to club or join her friends at w/e they're doing) and meet their friends.

    What my plan is (currently going slow by choice) is meet people, mix groups of people that would like each other, from that I'll get social proof, and from that I'll meet more people. Then I'll have a clientele to become a barber . PUA is more then just K-N-F closing, its for you to make something out of it.

    Edit: 69'th post, wut.

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    Pick up isn't about numbers. Why ?

    Pick up for some is self development, for others its fun, for others its a need. For me its an art because it can bring so much out of so little, its so fun meeting new people and so on.

    But about the numbers, I'd get a number, meet the girl first (either invite her to club or join her friends at w/e they're doing) and meet their friends.

    What my plan is (currently going slow by choice) is meet people, mix groups of people that would like each other, from that I'll get social proof, and from that I'll meet more people. Then I'll have a clientele to become a barber . PUA is more then just K-N-F closing, its for you to make something out of it.

    Edit: 69'th post, wut.
    i think you missunderstood the meaning of this post, did you even read what i wrote?
    what i mean by "pua is a numbers game" is that the more girls you talk to the more success you will have.
    moving on from one girl to the next is one of the most essential skills (especialy when making cold approaches)
    the more approaches you make, the more likely you will pull at least one girl.

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    Quote Originally Posted by peel View Post
    Ive been told this but I am scared people will think of me a sleaze for approaching so many and I will be looked down upon as the guy who has to ask 1,000 to get 1 good reponse. The dishonor and embarrassment is too much. If you think otherwise maybe you havent tried it or you are approaching so super indirect no one notices which is near impossible unless all your game is night-party game and in those cases you don't have to do anything anyways but show up and the social scene will do the rest. I feel like I have gained a bit of a bad reputation here at my school
    why should you care sooo much of what other people think of you? the hole numbers game concept comes from the fact that social confidence comes from social experience. the more girls you talk to the better you will get at talking to them.

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    No no I understood, but I'm speaking in general. Clearly thats what you want to start with. Start slow HB6-7, go higher as you gain more experience, ofcourse.

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    I think this post was over your head.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    No no I understood, but I'm speaking in general. Clearly thats what you want to start with. Start slow HB6-7, go higher as you gain more experience, ofcourse.
    i don't think you are grasping the concept of it being a numbers game.

    the more ladies you talk to regardless of who they may be, the better you will be at talking to ladies. experience is the best teacher. the more experience you get (from talking to them) the better you will get.

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    Default Re: pick-up is a numbers game

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    i don't think you are grasping the concept of it being a numbers game.

    the more ladies you talk to regardless of who they may be, the better you will be at talking to ladies. experience is the best teacher. the more experience you get (from talking to them) the better you will get.

    Well in one-sense if your open-minded and further tune and calibrate yourself after various success/failures then YES.

    But if you go in guns-blazing one-track mind trashing any experience then not gaining any knowledge cause your too-good to learn anything new, then you'll never learn and further confuse yourself.



    Edit:shortened rambling and multiple repeated facts


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