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    Default Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    Ok so I met this asian HB8 on campus, we talked for awhile as I walked with her and I number closed her and got a hug and she told me to text her later. I text her "What's up mini gangster?" and she text back "hey". To make a long story short she ended up coming over the next night and was all over me giving me hugs and telling me to text her the next day when she was leaving. The next morning she texts me first and after talking for awhile admitted that she missed me and that I was the first thing she thought of upon waking up. Later that night she texts me saying that she's bored where she's and says that she wants to chill with me, I told her we could chill and she never text back. The next day I text her Happy sweetest day and she said happy sweetest day back and we had a mini convo that led to her asking what I was doing that night and I said idk yet and that she should come keep me company to which she never replied. She takes a few hours to reply a decent number of times and I just really want to know...am I wasting my time? and if so, what can I do to get back on track with her?

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    Default Re: Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    idk man it seems like she is really into you then she does a flip and she doesnt. maybe ask her out for a movie or something see if she doesnt reply if she doesnt she might be playing you
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    Yeah idk either, I'm thinking of just backing off for a few days and then texting her again. You know, so as to give her space and not be needy and all

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    Default Re: Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    Neither of you are making definitive plans. Lets chill, hangout etc are all very loose. Try lock in a proper attractive date offer. It sounds like she is texting you and showing affection only when she's bored. You dont want to be seen as AFC or a friend in that case. Start being braver but at the same time not as needy. In other words move out of idle into forward or reverse (Push Pull). Next time she texts 'what are you doing?' say something like 'I'm walking over to your place right now, I'll be there in 2 minutes...I'm going to kiss you head to toe'. That will get her blood racing. When she says 'really!?? What!?' you pull back to a partial disqualifier 'Of course Im kidding, Im busy right now.'. If she starts/continues chasing/texting later you can say 'Hey you want to go for hotpot tomorrow night at Spicy Sichuan Kitchen?'. If she flakes, freeze her out. If she says yes and turns up, pounce. Dont stay idle. If she says she wants to chill say 'Ok I'll come over now, Ill bring some snack food' or 'lets go for coffee then, Ill see you at the cafe in 1/2 hour?' rather than 'ok we can chill'. Take the lead full on or ignore her completely and say you can't right now because 'you are busy'. If she says things like 'you were the first person I thought about this morning' say something sexual back 'You were touching yourself this morning?? ' or 'oh you had a sexual dream? haha'. Slightly teasing her whilst planting the seed of sexual desire. Asian girls are pretty open about discussing sex.

    What part of asia is she from? Use google translate and send her a message in her own language. Double check the translation before you send it by retranslating back into english and adjust grammar accordingly. Also most asian girls I know use a multitude of IM type apps and like to use emoticons so use all that to your advantage. She might not use texting as frequently as apps like QQ, wechat, Viber, Talkbox etc.

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    Default Re: Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    This is the grey area where guys end up in the friendzone after the initial contacts. She could be trying to see where you are coming from if you just want to close her and all and nothing else. In order to stay out of the friendzone at this point I would be casual with her and if she texts you and ask to hang out I would tell her I am busy or something. Don't be available to her all the time when she texts you to hang out and she doesn't come through or takes a long time for replies to your texts. Have some other options going on so this way you won't end up needy or desperate chasing her in which this is what she wants, and from the tone of your post you are starting to go down that road. Games are played at the beginning of a relationship or hookups (unfortunately) but play to win and make yourself a challenge.

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    Default Re: Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    Thanks guys, I will try this stuff out and I will update on what happens in the next day or two when I text her or, if by some chance, she texts me

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    Default Re: Asian HB8, need help figuring out if I still have a chance

    Well we went on another "date" (to smoke of course) and this time she was all over me and had no real issues with holding my hand or holding me in her arms period, she was laying in my bed and letting me touch all over her and and practically do whatever I wanted (this is before smoking). Then afterwards I walked her back to her room and went in for the kiss but she freaked out all of a sudden and pulled back saying I don't wanna kiss you! The next day I text her and she replied for one message and then never replied to my reply.....Idk if that means that I've lost or what but I think I'm about done messing with the bish anyways!


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