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    Default Advice needed on text conversation

    Hi,

    Hoping someone can give me some quick help with text game.

    Been out with this girl a few times and not really escalated properly with her until the end of the last date we went on. She is interested but need to get this right to ensure I don't get put in the friend zone, which I fear is something I am teetering on the edge of

    Here is the last set of texts from yesterday

    Me: how was you sat night? You as hanging as you expected to be?
    Her: not quite as bad as em who compared her hangover to being on a come down :/
    Me: ouch. Feeling fairly wonky myself today. Ended up at a roller disco las night and then an impromptu house party at mine until 5am. Popcorn or crisps?
    Her: haha, awsumno. Crisps without a doubt
    Me: salt and vinegar or ready salted
    Her: s and v
    Me: just in time thanks
    Her: are you playing random text roulette?

    Things I think I did wrong, I didn't/don't state my intentions with her at all. Which is to get her back on another date. I'm not piquing her curiosity in any way and I didn't compliment her with a neg.

    And that is where I have left it at the moment, feel like I should reply but can't think of anything other than something slightly witty and then to ask her about the random text roulette game she is talking about (genuinely no idea what she is talking about).

    But that option seems a bit lame and I would like to hook her in a little bit more, ideally to get her on another date or more preferable would be to get her round to mine for 'dinner'.

    Anyone got any suggestions on how/where I should take this?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Advice needed on text conversation

    haha i like feeling wonky, i might use that

    you never really state why you are asking her popcorn or crisps after she respons. you don't need another question after that either. in her mind its like where is this going..hence the what are you just playing text roulette or something

    you're kind of in a boring topic, need to shake things up...

    "these are all very relevant questions i need know before i take you out for a night on the town. will be epic. just need to know if you have any peanut allergies..."

    that'd be my response fwiw

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    Default Re: Advice needed on text conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by IndianaGuy View Post

    you're kind of in a boring topic, need to shake things up

    that'd be my response fwiw
    agreed so changed the topic completely, but more playful. She did respond and asked how my holiday was shaping up. Was thinking of

    Good, spent the day thinking of you..... Only joking :-P Been out for a run, done some work, and cooked some tasty food.

    Worried its a bit 'creepy' though

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    Default Re: Advice needed on text conversation

    Actually, it started out a little bit too vanilla with the very first one... but you actually rocked the house as you progressed. (Great job with the topic change!!)




    When she asked about random text roulette, she was showing interest by the way...

    Examples of good replies would be:

    "Dang! How'd you know!!? "

    "Hmmm... is THAT what it's called? I bet you're quite experienced.."
    (Which also adds a nice, hidden potential innuendo)

    "Hey! I'm asking the questions here smarty-pants! So, continuing on: Coke or Pepsi?"

    "Umm... what if I say 'yes'? "

    "No silly, I'm analyzing your reactions for scientific purposes. "


    I think she was being receptive to the playful interaction. (And for the record; every girl I've ever played this game with has LOVED it!)

    Don't go back into this right away... but you can absolutely use it as a callback subject in the future.



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    Default Re: Advice needed on text conversation

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    don't send random boring texts and then wonder why girls don't like texting you! check out the link before you text anyone else!


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